Merry Brides

9/18/06

The Christmas Wedding

To be merry at Christmas is one thing, but to be married at Christmas is truly romantic and magical. What could be a better time to get married and start a new life than when families come together to celebrate the festive season?

I’m sure there are many ideas that you and your partner can come up with on your own, however, here is a brief outline of some of them that may help you on your way.

VOWS:

• Your vows should come directly from the heart; however, the wording could be played with in order to create a magical feeling for you both.

• As Christmas is a religious time you could always stick with the traditional vows, maybe embellishing upon this for the sake of the Christmas season.

INVITATIONS:

• Leave a little more time before sending your invitations as people’s diaries will be very busy this time of year.

• You can highlight the Christmas theme on your invitations without making it look too much like a Christmas card, for example, simply introducing a border made of white snowflakes around your text.

WEDDING FAVORS:

• Ice cube place card holders
• Treasure ball – filled with Christmas candy
• Holiday ornament candles
• Miniature wedding snow globes
• Personalised Christmas crackers
• Mini Christmas trees

ENTERTAINMENT:

• Ask a children’s choir to sing at the ceremony.
• Hire a wedding magician to give your wedding breakfast a little more….well you know – magical!
• Any singer or band that is willing to either provide part or a whole Christmas show.

DECORATIONS:

• This one is simple – except this time you might not want to let the kids have a go.
• Miniature Christmas trees with lots of presents underneath
• Lots of candle light
• Glitter!

THE CAKE:

• You could have a cake that looks like a stack of Christmas gifts
• Decorate with Iced holly and berries
• Incorporate the traditional colours and symbols

THE ARRIVAL:

• For a true Christmas look you could arrive on a Christmas sleigh with Santa at the reins.
• If you’d prefer to arrive by the normal means you could work a little magic with the decorations.

FLOWERS:

• Check with your florist which flowers are in season over Christmas.
• Bear in mind that flowers can be more expensive this time of year.
• Use holly, pine and sprigs of Ivy.
• Add mistletoe to accent corsages and boutonnieres.
• Place pots of poinsettia in the center of each table, tied with a ribbon trim.

Well that’s a start anyway! Between the two of you, I’m sure you’ll find many more ways in which to make the perfect Christmas wedding.

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Jasmine

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9/16/06

There's a Flower for Every Bride

Your wedding day is the perfect time to stop and smell the roses - or the daisies or the tulips or the hydrangea. A bride's flower options, from her bouquet to the centerpieces, are virtually limitless. If you're having a difficult time choosing the right blooms, consider the type of bride you are. There's a perfect flower for everyone. Here are some suggestions depending upon your own personal style.

THE CLASSIC BRIDE

Silver-screen star Grace Kelly comes to mind when you think of the classic bride: Simple, sophisticated and timeless. She follows all the rules of wedding etiquette, and she takes tradition seriously. The classic brides' current celebrity role model might be someone like Jessica Simpson, who walked down the aisle carrying a bouquet of stephanotis in 2003. White roses or stephanotis with pearl pins in the center are the ideal flowers for the classic bride's bouquet. The classic woman's bridesmaids carry cascading roses in shades that match their dresses. Her groom and ushers sport rose and baby's breath boutonnières. Long-stemmed white roses in tall vases that allow guests to see one another make for traditional, tasteful reception centerpieces.

THE MODERN BRIDE

This bride is up on all the hottest wedding trends, and she's more than happy to include them in her big day. She is in vogue and willing to think outside the box. Debra Messing, the "Will and Grace" star who carried a tall bouquet of calla lilies at her wedding in 2000 to screenwriter Daniel Zelman, is someone the modern bride can emulate. When it comes to the bouquet, she should consider single-flower monochromatic nosegays or calla lilies in white or a bright color. Calla lilies in various shades - from yellow to crimson - are ideal for the modern girl's attendants. Her groom might stick with the traditional rose boutonnière or simply a silk handkerchief tucked in his front pocket, depending upon the affair's degree of formality. Wildflowers for centerpieces or towering trays of cookies or another conversation piece are key signs of a modern bride.

THE GLAMOROUS BRIDE

Diva is the first word that comes to mind when you hear about the glamorous bride. Everything she does makes a dramatic statement. And her flowers - or lack thereof - are no different. Think Melania Knauss, who wed Donald Trump in January 2005. She clutched rosary beads in lieu of a bouquet as she walked down the aisle solo. A glamourous bride who prefers to make a statement with flowers should choose something like orchids, peonies, giant peonies, or black-magic roses. This bride often chooses more sleek and simple flower arrangements for her bridemaids - if she includes them - because she should be the center of attention.

THE ROMANTIC BRIDE

She wants to be a princess for a day and often wears a big frilly dress with lots of regal details. The late Princess Diana is her role model. The romantic bride chooses flowers that are cascading and pastel. Consider dahlias, a baby's breath cloud or a nosegay in a silver or gold cone-shaped vase called a tussy mussy. Tea roses are a great choice for the bridesmiads, and the flower girl wears a wreath of baby's breath in her hair. Decorative reception flowers should be soft and demure in color.

Dealing With Wedding Vendors

Even in the bridal industry, there will always be shady people who might be looking to take advantage of a young couple getting married. It could be a wedding photographer who nickels and dimes for every little thing, or even a high priced wedding consultant who has dollar signs in her eyes. To avoid any misunderstandings, headaches and really bad experiences, follow these tips below and you're wedding planning will be worry-free, for the most part.

Establish a contract; this is really a no brainer. If you are dealing with a reputable business, you will find that this is often standard procedure before engaging in any business. Remember; do not to assume anything, always read the fine print and the terms and conditions. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Do not sign anything until you full understand what you are signing for.

It is also important to consider cancellation policies. What happens if you wish to cancel a service you have booked? Will there be fees involved? Dear God, what if the wedding is called off? You have to be sure that there is an escape clause for extreme circumstances such as these. As much as we don’t want to think such horrid thoughts, things do happen all the time.

When dealing with caterers or reception facilities, find out if there are additional fees for set up and clean up. Do not be afraid to ask about charges for cake cutting, coat rooms and corkage fees. All costs should be itemized in the contract and request that no additional fees are to be added after these fees have been agreed upon.

Be sure to inquire about overtime fees. Whether this is for your reception, limousine service or any other service on the day, you do not want to be slapped upside the veil with an unexpected charge for overtime fees. Play it safe and find out what options you have if your wedding runs overtime. Nine times out of ten, they always do.

Be cautious of a deal that seems too good to be true. If you shop around, ask questions and do your homework, you should have a general idea of how much a certain service will cost. If you find an offer that is suspiciously cheap, don't be afraid to ask why. Most likely, it’s not too good to be true; rather, the service is simply horrible.

Double bookings can sometimes happen, particularly during the peak wedding seasons. If you know that another wedding is booked for the same day in the same room as yours, be sure that you specify your exact time, from which hour to which hour you require the room. Remember to allow for enough time to clean-up between weddings. Hopefully, someone on staff will manage their time effectively to avoid any awkward situations.

Don’t be obsessive, don’t compromise, don’t forget about your budget, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Just because you are planning the most important day of your entire life, don’t get too emotional and do not be pressured by slick vendors or high pressure sales tactics. There are enough quality wedding professionals to choose from – you do not want to regret one of these decisions later.

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9/14/06

Create Homemade Invitations

If you are throwing a party, part of the planning will involve letting the guests know about the event. Invitations sent through the mail are one of the easiest and most traditional ways of sharing the news. Yet, your invitations don't just have to be the preprinted ones bought at your local card shop. You can use creativity and some items at hand to design invitations geared to the theme of your party. Here are some ideas for creating winning invitations:

· Cut and paste: Here's a way to let your creativity shine. Cut out pictures from magazines, printed from the Internet or any other media, that follow the theme of your party and paste them on card stock of your choice. Purchase the stock at a stationary store or a craft center. For example, if you're hosting a bridal shower, select pictures of wedding dresses, bouquets and cakes. Include the information about the party in the same way - cut out the date, address and party location from similar sources. One advantage is that each guest will have a unique invite to remember the event.

· Use creative materials: For smaller parties (where you won't want to incur large postage costs), consider using decorative bottles, tubes and other interesting packaging materials to hold a rolled-up invitation. It will lend an old-fashioned, romantic feel, and be an invitation your guests will certainly remember.

· Let food lead the way: How about using food items as invites? Bake a batch of sugar cookies in a shape that correlates with the theme of your party (like a balloon, gift box, etc.) Frost them, then use edible decorating pens to write the information on the cookies. Just be sure to package carefully so the cookies won't crumble en route!

· Consult the inner graphic designer: A home computer is a perfect tool for creating invitations. Whether you choose to design and print your invitation from scratch use specialty papers with decorative borders and themes. Or use the many invitation kits available at stationery and office-supply stores. The possibilities are endless. Embellish your invitations with ribbon, vellum paper, or confetti tucked inside the envelope.

· Get computer savvy: If you prefer not to use snail mail to send out your invitations, you can design e-mail cards as well. Many online sites offer guest list maintenance and reply options to make it convenient. Just point and click to invite your friends and family.

· A photo tells the story: A simple design strategy is just to place a favorite photo on the invitation (such as a portrait or candid of your child for a birthday party). You can print them up yourself, or use a service that will print photo cards, like one at a neighborhood store or through the Internet, for a cost slightly above normal photo developing charges.

Whatever method of inviting your guests you choose, just remember to clearly spell out the details of the event and include a "respond by" (RSVP) date and phone number. In addition, include directions to the party location for out-of-town guests.

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9/12/06

Seaside Wedding Ceremonies

The setting sun, the roaring waves, your true love. Have a dream wedding ceremony on edge of the ocean using our ideas for unique ways to include nature in your promises.

Oceanic Readings.
Incorportate the sea's power into your ceremony by using readings and poems that reflect your love for the waves as much as your love for one another.

Rites of the Ocean.
You may want to incorporate your surroundings into your ceremony. For example, instead of a unity candle, each of you pour sand into one container symbolizing both the endurance of time as well as unity. Or, if you're having your ceremony around sunset, create vows that have to do with new days dawning, planets revolving around the sun, or the promise of a new day with each sunset. For your vows, make a circle of seashells for you both to stand inside.

Creative entrances and exits.
Since this is an unusual wedding environment, why not use your imagination when deciding where to walk down the aisle/ have guests seated/ leave the ceremony? Try making a grand entrance from behind some sea oats, or leading all your guests to the appointed wedding spot on the beach. After the ceremony is finished, you and your new husband can take a walk on the beach while your guests are bustling to the reception.

Honoring your family.
Instead of presenting mothers with flowers, give shells instead. Ask your father to walk down the beach with you for a way before the ceremony begins, and then turn around for a gentle stroll right up to your guests and groom. Adorn mothers and fathers with Hawaiin leis at the beginning of the ceremony, a welcome symbol you can use to symbolize welcoming them into a new family.

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Wedding Photography Tip Sheet

A wedding photo album is something that most couples cannot do without. After all, photos in addition to a wedding video are the only ways to capture the exact moments and emotions of the day. As a result, you want quality photos from your photographer so that you'll have wonderful images that will last a lifetime.

There are several steps you can take to ensure you receive beautiful photos. Naturally, the key is finding a reputable photographer who can offer the types of shots you desire. Here are some pointers to keep in mind when selecting a photographer and arranging wedding photos.

* When interviewing photographers, ask to see photos from a complete wedding. Any photographer, even a poor one, can piece together a portfolio of his best work. By viewing all the photos from a particular wedding, or even better, the proofs, you can get an idea if the photographer knows his stuff. Your best bet is to go with a referral. If you loved your cousin's photographer, book with him.

* Set aside enough time for photos. Don't book your ceremony and reception back to back, otherwise the photographer might feel rushed, and it will be evident in your photos.

* Clearly spell out the types of photos you'd like in your contract. If you want photos with all your family members, a shot with your prized pooch or any other particular photos, be sure to speak up.

* Get all extras and special services in writing. Black-and-white photography, digital enhancements and extra prints may cost more. Don't be caught off guard when the bill arrives.

* Confirm all details a few days before. Provide directions to and from your home, church and reception site. No one wants a photographer who is missing in action.

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9/11/06

How to Request a Woman's Hand in Matrimony

(CL) -- The manner in which a man requests a woman's hand in matrimony is very important and shows the kind of respect, accord and communication on which the foundation of marriage will be constructed. The value of this first ceremony of marriage is almost as palpable, one may say, that it transcends many cultures.

Why? Due to the fact that this ceremony constitutes an act of integrity where a bride's parents are put on a pedestal and informed of the couple's future wedding plans-plans that in the majority of cases have the bride leaving her parent's home to start a new life with her husband and raise a family of her own.

Requesting a woman's hand in matrimony is a very ancient and international tradition. In the past, this ceremony-besides bestowing the respective honors - occurred in order to examine the economic interests of both families. Nowadays, the basic elements behind this act remain the same: the parents of the groom are introduced to the bride's parents; they get together and are informed of their children's decision.

Although it seems pretty simple, everyone who has lived this moment knows that (unless parents of both parties know each other for years or that the bride and groom have dated for such a long period of time that the parents already know each other) this is a very tense and formal ceremony.

What to keep in mind

Both the bride and groom should understand that the act of requesting a woman's hand in matrimony would make their already accepted commitment more formal for both families. Each family has its own custom so it is very important that these traditions are taken into account in order to avoid offending anyone.

The parties should also take into account the main objective for this reunion, which is their children's intense love that for one reason or another had led them into matrimony. The parents of the bride should be thanked for the protection and guidance they have given their daughter; it has made her into the woman with whom the groom wants to share the rest of his life.

Advice

The bride and groom should set a date for this ceremony that is at least two weeks in advance and communicate it to their parents.

The ceremony should not take place too late in the day, since this is a sign of disrespect to both parties. It is also a custom that the groom sends a gift to the bride and future mother-in-law that morning (flowers for example).

Stay calm and avoid succumbing to the obstacles that may arise that day. Avoid discussing petty issues.

Attire should be formal, the groom must wear a suit and tie and the bride should wear an elegant dress.

Keep in mind that a wedding comes filled with expenses and the ring is one of the most indispensable. Do not hold back with this token and do try to surprise the bride with the ring. It's important to know the size of her ring finger. Imagine ruining a beautiful dinner and lovely speech with a bride who is trying to fit a tiny ring on her finger or a ring that is so large that it is double in size.

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9/10/06

Do I really need a Wedding Website?

Do I really need a Wedding Website?
Many engaged couples are asking themselves this question as a very popular trend snowballs through the wedding industry. Before I got engaged I certainly wouldn't have considered getting a personal website to post personal information and pictures about myself, so the idea seemed bizarre to me too. Then, about a month after my fiancée proposed, I visited a friend's wedding website and realized it was more of a necessity as a means to distribute information, than about vanity at all.

As it turned out, our wedding website was one of the best parts about our wedding. The site allowed us to build a lot of momentum towards the big day. People felt a part of the planning and our families and friends who hadn't met John or myself got to learn more about us, which made a big difference on our wedding day.

We both have big families and had many people coming from out of town. The website allowed us to put all of the travel information (air, car, hotel) in one spot that everyone had access to. There was also tons of information about our city available on our site, which was great for people who had never been to Boston before.

We made sure to include a little card in our invitation that informed everyone that all information regarding the wedding such as details and maps of events would be posted on our website. This saved us many phone calls with questions about where and when each event was taking place. Our guests loved the RSVP feature, 75% of our guests replied on line ! People really seemed to prefer responding by email instead of snail mail. Once they were on the site, the online registry also made it very convenient for our guests to give us gifts that we actually wanted.

Due to my chronic shyness, I thought you had to be an exhibitionist to consider getting a website. The truth is, it gave many people who didn't know us, a great way to learn about each of us through our story, biographies and pictures. People seemed to really like the Poll and Quiz which we updated a few times before and after the wedding. We were able to stretch out our incredible wedding for a long time as people went to the site to see our pictures and send wonderful comments through the guest book for weeks after the wedding.

We couldn't believe how easy it was to create our site. It really was just filling in forms online. All the work was done for us, and the designs were just great. We also really appreciated that it did not cost a fortune and that we were able try it before we bought it before committing to what was a thoroughly enjoyable process from beginning to end.

As you can see the website was a huge success with our guests who came to the wedding, but it was equally gratifying for our friends and family around the world who couldn't make it. Witness my 94 year old grandmother who was actually able to take part in my wedding even though she couldn't leave her house. So in answer to the question posed in the title of this letter, this former skeptic highly recommends a wedding website for every engaged couple!

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9/9/06

Crash Course in Wedding Registry 101

Congratulations: You are getting married! One of the fun parts of the pre-wedding whirlwind is that you get to register for all the supplies you'll need to start your new home.

First, take stock of what you have and will keep, and what you need and want. Think about everything from barware to bedding, and don't forget about formal dinnerware. Even though you may not be ready to serve a three-course meal on fine china this year, it might be in your entertaining future.

Next, make a list of your desired items and how many of each you'll need. Plan to register at two to four stores that are easily accessible for guests. Even better, pick a place that offers your registry online or via fax or phone. Look for stores that have the brands and styles you want in a variety of price ranges, and carry both traditional products like a meat grinder and vegetable people, and fun ones like an ice cream maker or pizza stone.

Ask how the retailer maintains your registry. If an item is purchased, when will it be reflected on your list ... in 10 minutes or 48 hours? You want it update fast to help prevent you from getting three coffeepots when you only asked for one.
While you will get many gifts in person, some may come through the mail. Make sure gifts can be shipped to an address that's convenient for you, whether it be your home, office, your mom's house, etc. That way, you can easily receive your gifts. This arrangement also benefits guests who may not want to carry a heavy gift to your engagement party, bridal shower or the wedding itself.

Look for a registry that will stay posted for at least a year after your wedding date. Some people prefer to purchase an item after the wedding as a housewarming gift. In addition, others may look to your registry for gift ideas for anniversaries or other milestones.

Getting doubles of gifts is just unavoidable, and some folks simply prefer to get you a unique gift that wasn't on your registry at all. But you needn't be stuck with three vases that look alike. Find out about the store's exchange and return policy. Some questions to keep in mind: How long do you have before you can return or exchange an item? Do all items fall under the exchange and return umbrella or just some?

Don't be afraid to ask about the fringe benefits. Sometimes you can get discounts on any registry items that aren't purchased. You may get a percentage off of anything on your registry for a year after your wedding, or you may get the discount on a one-time shopping spree. Ask registry consultants about discount specifics.

Once you choose where you will register, set up an appointment. You may be walked around the store by a registry specialist or be able to register yourself with a hand-held scanner. Whatever you do, take your time. You can always come back later to add items or delete some should you change your mind. (You can often manage your registry online from your home computer so you don't have to do it all at the store itself.)

Remember that's it's okay to register for a lot of items. That way, you give your guests plenty of gift-giving options in a range of prices. You may also want to register for necessities first, like coffee mugs, and then add on specialty items like a cappuccino maker after the essentials are bought. That way, you aren't stuck with a cappuccino maker but no cups.

Keep back-up items in mind. Since you are registering in advance of your wedding, certain items may become discontinued before your big event occurs. Check your registry often for such cases, and add replacement items instead.

Most importantly, don't forget to express your gratitude for your registry gift (or any gift for that matter) with a handwritten thank-you note. Remember, even though you've registered and are getting married, gifts are not mandatory. Show guests you appreciate their thoughtful gesture.

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FLATWARE

butter knife
salad servers
serving spoons (slotted)
serving forks
soup ladle

GLASSWARE

wine glasses
water goblets
juice glasses
champagne flutes
ice bucket and tongs
margarita and/or martini glasses

DINNERWARE

coffeepot
teapot
gravy boat and stand
salt and pepper shakers
serving bowls
salad bowl
serving trays
soup tureen
cake plate
butter dish
china place settings (dinner plate, salad/dessert plate, bread and Butter plate, teacup and saucer)
casual place settings (dinner plate, salad/dessert plate, soup/cereal bowl, mug)

KITCHENWARE CHECKLIST

Coffee grinder
tea kettle
blender
coffeemaker
food processor
toaster
skillet
saucepan with lid
roasting pan
colander
casserole dish
baking sheets, cake pans, muffin tins
measuring cups/spoons
steak knives, bread knife, paring knife, sharpening tool
kitchen shears
handmixer
slow cooker

LINENS AND BATH GEAR

sheet sets for main and guest bedrooms
down comforter/duvet cover
bed skirt, mattress pad, blankets
pillows and decorative pillows
bath towels, hand towels, wash cloths, guest towels
bath mats
scale
electric toothbrush
hamper

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9/7/06

Second weddings, another chance at love

(CL) - For those of us who are lucky enough to have been given a second chance at love, a second wedding means a new beginning filled with hopes and dreams. The joie de vivre is rehashed and a desire to rejoice manifests itself. So why shouldn't you celebrate this special occasion with friends and family?

Although there are a few changes in etiquette in regards to how you should celebrate a second wedding, the bride and groom have the exact same dreams. Maybe with a just a little bit more maturity this time around and an even stronger conviction; but age and failed former relationships are not as important as the wedding celebration! So let's go over a few tips on how to prepare a delightful marriage ceremony.

How to make the announcement: If there are any children from previous relationships, they should be the first ones who should find out about the upcoming nuptials. Try to respond immediately to any questions they may have about the new living situation. Their other parent should also be informed of the wedding as soon as possible. Ex-husbands and ex-wives as well as former in-laws should be informed of your future plans, so you can maintain a good relationship for the benefit of the children. After that's all said and done, feel free to make a formal wedding announcement in your local paper.

Who to invite: It all depends on the type of wedding that you have in mind. Generally, the bride and groom plan the event without relying on their parents' pocketbook. Second weddings are generally more sophisticated and intimate than first weddings. Some couples opt for an elegant dinner, inviting only their closest relatives and friends. However, others offer a wedding reception that can vary in size and scope. There is really no set rule.

Should the bride wear white? There is really no reason why she should not wear white. Nowadays, the color white symbolizes the joy of the celebration. She should, however, select a dress design with a proper degree of formality. Wedding gowns that are shorter in length are popular, and so are the always-elegant full-lengths. The headdress should be more sophisticate, like discrete flowers or an elegant hat. On the other hand, veils are not recommended for second weddings because they have traditionally been associated with virginity.

What about traditions? Of course they also have a place in the celebration. The toast, tossing the bridal bouquet, throwing rice to send-off the bride and groom to their honeymoon. All these customs can be included in a second wedding. There is no reason that this occasion should not be a special moment where you celebrate a new beginning. NC066049

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Three Ways to Cut Cake Costs

The wedding cake you've fantasized about can also be the one your wallet says "yes" to. Here are some great ideas for a more affordable - but still gorgeous - wedding cake.

Get a smaller cake. Show off the beautiful wedding cake for everyone to see, then have a sheet cake of the same flavor cut in the back.

Make mini cakes. Instead of one large cake, split up the cost and ask your baker to make every guest a cupcake of your favorite flavor instead. Top each with something pretty, and build a 'wedding cake' tower of your fabulous cupcakes.

Offer a dessert bar. Another great way to offer dessert while having a smaller cake: set up a dessert bar with mini pastries and coffee to offset a piece of wedding cake.

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9/5/06

Can you have a lifelong love affair. and be married?

"Yes, as long as it's with your spouse! And it's not difficult, so it's sad so few couples succeed," says Charlie Michaels who has been living this dream for 25 years with her husband Mike Brown.

"We were clueless until a couple who had been happily married for 50 years shared their secret with us," Michaels said. "Their advice was simple: Individually and separately write down all of your expectations of marriage, compare them and agree how you will handle your differences.
"This was brilliant, because most of the disappointments in our lives are not that the actual situation is so terrible, but rather we become upset when reality differs from what we expected."

By identifying expectations you share, you build confidence, trust and develop a common focus. Uncovering differences doesn't harm your relationship as many couples fear, but merely highlights possible hotspots. By agreeing now how you will handle these differences, you turn potential disagreements into non-issues. If you wait until problems actually arise, you are much more likely to have arguments than discussions.

This process builds a strong foundation under the dreams you've been sharing, strengthens your relationship, eliminates doubts and allows you to know each other better than many couples do after years of marriage.

"Once you start talking, you realize that you have expectations for just about everything - some make you laugh, others get you talking," Charlie said. "One of our differences had to do with ironing. Mike had expected me to do the ironing. I don't iron, period. Our negotiated 'compromise' was that Mike would either send his clothes out to be ironed, iron them himself or wear them wrinkled!

"On a more serious note, we made several agreements that probably saved our marriage. One had to do with how we would spend money if we were financially destitute . a situation we never expected to face, but did within two years of getting married."

The Browns summarized their agreements into a written list called a Marriage Pact. Mike adds, "It's sort of like a sports team's playbook because we know what each of us is supposed to do in a given situation. Living by these agreements minimizes conflict and provides guidelines that make difficult decisions less traumatic. This has enabled us to enjoy each other's love and support through several situations that would have ended a weaker marriage."

Every couple's Pact will be different. In their book, "Mastering Marriage," the Browns give step-by-step directions for creating your unique Marriage Pact. Also included are other secrets they use to keep love alive, including their favorite, which only takes one second a day! Interesting quotes, real-life examples and cartoons make it a fun read.

The beautiful hardcover edition makes a perfect engagement, shower or wedding gift.

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Charlie and Mike claim their ideas will help you be pleased with the choices you make and even happier and more in love years from now than you are today. Their readers believe them.

Until Next Time!
Jasmine

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For the Groom's Eyes Only!

The wedding proposal has taken place and a date has been set.The preparations begin and the bride starts to steal all the attention. Of course, the bride will be the center of attention at the wedding. Everybody awaits her entrance at the church, to admire (or criticize) her dress, veil and flowers. However, there cannot be a bride without a groom. So let's take time to focus solely on him. Because a man in love has his own dreams for his special day and he wants everything to be perfect, too.

Let's take a look at how the groom can participate in the wedding plans. The most important thing for him to do is to avoid assuming a passive attitude when preparation time comes around. Besides having the satisfaction of partaking in the details of his own wedding, his bride will also appreciate the effort. The groom should discuss his own wishes with the bride. He should go with her on shopping trips and help decide on what flowers, photographer and reception hall to select.

It is his responsibility to choose a best man, although he should discuss how many ushers and bridesmaids to include in the bridal party. The bride and groom together should select the style and color of the suits and dresses for the bridal party. The groom should choose an appropriate tuxedo/ suit to wear at the ceremony. And he should also talk about it with his bride so that it won't clash with her gown.

The following are a few extra tips for the groom:

First of all, consider the time of day that the wedding will take place and the formality of the ceremony and reception. If it is an evening formal ceremony, the groom's tuxedo and the ushers' tuxedos should be identical. The only difference is the boutonnieres or flower worn on the lapel. In formal day weddings and semi-formal ones, the ushers can wear suits of a different color.

In regards to color, black remains a favorite. Because besides being elegant, it is appropriate at any time of the day, any time of the year and in all styles of weddings. The shirt should be white on white, with a pleated front for formal and semi-formal weddings and white with a classic cut for informal weddings. Pastels and T-shirts are definitely out!

The groom is responsible for delegating the responsibility for fittings at the tailor shop to his best man, who should then inform each usher on when to go for a fitting and when to pick up the tux/suit. Likewise, the best man is in charge of making sure that the ushers return the rentals to the tailor after the ceremony, so the groom can enjoy his honeymoon.

There is definitely no other way for a groom to begin his happily married life, than by taking part in the event that marks the beginning of it all

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9/4/06

Wedding Receptions ~ Unique Ideas

When it comes to wedding receptions, couples are looking for ways to give a unique, personal flair to their celebration, says Beverly Clark, wedding book author, and designer of the Beverly Clark Collection. "More and more brides and grooms want to express their own style, and they don't want to have a cookie-cutter wedding," she says. "So they are branching out to more elaborate and unique receptions, locations and themes." For example, Clark says that, most recently, her No. 1 selling wedding collection has been her beach-themed Seashore Collection, with many couples opting to get married on the beach and then tie in sand and seashell décor with their reception.

How can you add some personal touches to your wedding?

· Slideshows. During the reception, present a slideshow set to music with photos of you and your spouse from birth to present.

· Themes. Incorporate you and your spouse's heritage into the décor and food. Some possible wedding themes may also stem from your favorite hobby, a season, a historical period (such as the Roaring '20s or Renaissance eras), or a fairytale theme complete with a castle-shaped wedding cake.

· Creative table numbers. Instead of using numbers to identify tables, name your tables after phrases or words that have special meaning to you as a couple, such as your favorite travel spots.

· Monograms. Make your name part of the day. For example, wedding planner Tracie Morris had a client whose new last name started with an "M," so the couple put the letter "M" on top of their wedding cake and on their cocktail napkins. They also used a video projector to project an "M" onto the dance floor during the couple's first dance as husband and wife.

· Poetry. Write letters or poems to one another and read it during the reception.

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Jasmine

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9/2/06

Be Aglow at Your Wedding: Start Caring for Your Skin Ahead of Time

Brides come in all ages and planning a wedding can be exceedingly stressful on anybody, no matter what the age. If you, as the bride, have handled everything perfectly, those few days before the wedding could still take their toll on your health and especially on your skin.

On her wedding day, every bride wants to have her skin radiant and free from lines and pimples, so she looks her best, and her photos and videos come out looking perfect. No bride wants to even imagine the possibility that, one day, her offspring might gaze at their parents' wedding photos and remark on the blemish over their mother's right nostril.

Telling a bride-to-be to avoid stress and to take things lightly is easier said than done; nevertheless, taking care of the skin, despite the stress and a busy schedule, is not only possible but it is a must.

* Start at least a month or two before the wedding date to personally care for your skin every day. If you are the outdoors type or your skin has been neglected for years, then begin much earlier, even before you hire the wedding planner or the photographer.

* If you suffer from acne, rosacea, or any other skin condition, make sure to see a dermatologist months before the wedding. There are wonderful medicated creams on the market available with prescription that can prevent acne or rosacea outbursts on your wedding day.

*Sun protection should have been your habit all along; however, if you have neglected that, it is never too late to start. If you have to be out under the sun, use wide brimmed hats, sunglasses, umbrellas, and especially sunscreen lotion. Even the smallest dose of UVA rays can take their toll on the human skin. The best use you can get from a sunscreen lotion is if you choose one with an SPF of 15-30 and apply it every few hours. After you apply the lotion, stay indoors or in the shade for a few minutes to let the skin absorb the lotion.

* Before you put the sunscreen on, fortify your skin with a vitamin C lotion. With some women, vitamin C softens the skin lines and helps the sunscreen protect the skin better.

*Exfoliate you skin often if your skin is rough. If your skin is very tender, keep the exfoliating to once a month. To exfoliate, first cleanse your skin with a facial cleanser, or if you like, lukewarm distilled water. Then, apply an exfoliating gel or cream and rub into the skin with small circular motions. Rinse with warm water and pat dry with a warm towel. Never use products or devices like washcloths, loofahs, or puff buffs on your face. They are known to gather bacteria easily.

* Hydration of the skin is easy and can be done with the most common materials. Add a few drops of oil to a bowl of steaming hot water. Johnson's baby oil will do just fine, unless you want to use one your favorite oils or herbal solutions. Lean over the bowl until your face is about 8-12 inches away. Cover your head with a towel to capture the steam and relax for 15 minutes. Do this every day if you can.

* If at all possible, about three months before the wedding date, see a dermatologist or add an over the counter retinoid (Vitamin A Cream) to your daily skin care, if you are not already using one. Do not go under the sun immediately after applying a retinoid; wait at least fifteen minutes to half an hour. The most feasible skin care method for busy working women is a retinoid to be applied at night. If you are susceptible to dark circles under the eyes, an undereye lotion with alpha-hydroxy acids could be added to your daily care.

* If your skin is excessively dry, adding aloe Vera lotion or gel-mask to your daily regimen will help greatly.

* Avoid aggressive and experimental treatments, tanning, and facial waxing, one to two weeks before the wedding.

* Try to eat a well-balanced diet with extra fruits, vegetables, and leafy greens. They will help your skin and your figure at the same diet.

Give your skin a chance, and have your family and friends watch its glow match the glow in your eyes on your wedding day.

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8/31/06

Favors Around the World

In most cultures the wedding favor is an important symbol, saying "thank you for coming". Here are some takes on the wedding favor from around the world.

Italy
Italians give chocolates or candy filled with almonds or almond paste.

Middle East
Wedding favor tradition is centered around the Jordan almond. A candy-coated nut supposedly representing both the bitter and the sweet of marriage.

Malaysia
The traditional wedding favor is painted, decorated eggs - a symbol of fertility for the couple.

Russia and Japan
Both favor the same kinds of favors: both cultures are known for leaving nice gifts like picture frames, bud vases, or sachets as thank-yous.

The Netherlands
Favor tradition includes "Bridal Sugar" - five pieces of Dutch sweet candy wrapped in tulle. Each piece represents the five wedding wishes: love, happiness, loyalty, prosperity, and verility.

Ireland
The chime of bells is thought to restore harmony if a couple is fighting, and remind them of their wedding vows. Giving a bell as a gift to guests has become an Irish tradition.

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8/29/06

Explore the Varied Food Options for Weddings

The cake is just one course among the many food options available at today's wedding receptions.

The culmination of most weddings is the reception. At this party, guests typically dance, mingle and eat. Depending upon the scale of the wedding reception, the food service can be a spectacle in itself - beginning with an elaborate cocktail hour and ending with a decadent display of desserts.

When planning your wedding, your preferences and budget will dictate the type of food service and beverages you offer. However, part of deciding on what to select involves understanding the types of courses and foods involved. To make things easier, here is a brief rundown of food service typical for wedding receptions so you can make an informed decision.

COMMON SERVICES

· Open-Bar Service - Most couples choose to have an open bar at their wedding reception. This typically runs the duration of the reception or terminates an hour prior to the end of the evening. A premium bar service will include top-shelf liquors, frozen drinks, and cream-based drinks, in addition to nonalcoholic soft drinks. You can also choose to scale down bar service to only include wine, beer and soda.

· Cocktail Hour - During the cocktail hour, guests are treated to a display that appeals to all of the senses. This is where the reception hall really gets to shine in its food presentation. The cocktail hour may have a variety of food service options. They are typically offered buffet-style, or guests can visit stations to self-serve or be served by staff. Cold deli platters, breads, butler-passed hors d'oeuvres - appetizers carried on trays by staff members - as well as hot chafing dishes filled with pastas or other delights may also be available.

The cocktail hour may take place in a room separate from the main reception area or in the room itself. It will usually last an hour.

The bride and groom, as well as the wedding party, may be absent from the cocktail hour - enjoying their own snacks in a private bridal room. This helps create an aura of mystery and will allow them to make a grand entrance at the end of the cocktail hour.

· Main Dinner Service - With buffet-style, chafing dishes will be presented where guests choose from among menu items offered. A sit-down dinner service will allow guests to pick among two or three main courses offered - typically a fish, poultry or beef dish. Salad, soup or some small appetizer, like sliced fresh fruit, may also be served. A palate refresher - a lemon sorbet, or something similar - might also be served. This is used to break up the courses and cleanse the tongue of rich flavors so that the next food item will be presented in full flavor.

· Cake Service - After the cake-cutting tradition (if the couple opts to do so), a slice of wedding cake will be served to each of the guests. At this time, tea or coffee can also be served.

EXTRA TOUCHES

Some couples like to go above and beyond at their wedding reception. After all, this is a once-in-a-lifetime event for many. Here are some other services that may be offered to make the wedding extra special.

· Gourmet Coffee and Cordial Bar - Espresso, cappuccino and hot chocolate as well as cordials can be offered.

· Flambé - A spectacle in presentation, this dessert is set ablaze and served warm to guests.

· Viennese Hour (Dessert Bar) - A collection of gourmet cakes, pastries, cookies, ice cream, and other treats are offered for guests to indulge.

· Gourmet Salads/Top-Notch Cocktails - Some sites will offer the opportunity to serve more elaborate (and expensive) options at the cocktail hour. This could include seafood, like lobster, calamari and oysters, in addition to other gourmet culinary choices.

· Ice Sculpture - While not a food per se, some sites also give couples the option of having an ice sculpture adorn their cocktail service table to add flair and drama to the day.

When planning your wedding, be sure to discuss your meal preferences with your reception-site coordinator. If you have any dietary wishes (i.e. vegetarian meals, kosher preparation, ethnic requirements), make sure you can be accommodated.

Remember to have all of your options in writing and the costs spelled out clearly. This is likely to be the most expensive portion of your wedding, so be aware of what you're getting. Then, and most importantly, enjoy the day.

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8/28/06

Wedding Etiquette - Your Most Common Wedding Dilemmas Solved

As one of the biggest and most potentially stressful events of your life, getting engaged and subsequently planning a wedding brings with it an onslaught of questions. As times change and weddings evolve, traditional rules of etiquette have followed suit, only adding to the confusion.

To gain perspective, first understand that "etiquette" is above all about treating people with courtesy and making them feel comfortable. When an etiquette question arises, consider the feelings of those who will be affected.

To steer you through the fog of questions, I've compiled a quick look at the top five most common wedding etiquette dilemmas: Family Etiquette, Invitation Etiquette, Gift Etiquette, Attire Etiquette and The Cash Bar Issue.

Family Etiquette:
Introducing Your Parents -
If the bride and groom's parents have not met prior to the engagement, tradition dictates that the groom's family calls and introduces themselves to the bride's family and arranges a meeting. If the groom's parents do not make the first introduction, then the bride's parents should. Nowadays, who makes the first call is irrelevant; all that really matters is that the parents meet. If meeting face to face is impossible, a letter or phone call will suffice.

Introducing Divorced Parents -
If the groom's parents are divorced, the parent with the closest relationship to the groom should take the first step in meeting the bride's parents. If both sets are divorced, the parent closest to the groom should first contact the bride's suggested parent. If no one begins the introduction process, the couple should step in and ensure that everyone meets, while refraining from forcing potentially awkward situations.

Your In-Laws -
The groom's parents often feel left out of the planning process. To avoid this, invite your future in-laws into the initial dialogue. You should immediately inform them of your ideas regarding location, date, size and style of the wedding. Take queues on their desired level of involvement and include them accordingly. Let them make offers to pitch in with finances or planning. Above all, keep them informed throughout your engagement.

Invitation Etiquette:
Inviting partners and guests -
If an invited guest is married, engaged or living with a significant other, that partner must be included in the invitation. A single invitation addressed to both individuals should be sent to spouses or couples who live together, while separate invitations should be sent to each member of an engaged or long term couple who don't live together. Inviting single guests with a date is a thoughtful gesture, but one that is not required. If you are inviting a single guest with a date, try to find out the name of your friend's intended date and include that person's name on the invitation. Otherwise, inner envelopes may include "And Guest," indicating that he or she may bring any chosen escort or friend.

Guests Who Ask to Bring a Guest -
Your guests should know better! It is never appropriate for a guest to ask to bring a date, and you have every right to politely say no. However, if you discover that a guest is engaged or living with a significant other, you should extend a written or verbal invitation.

Invitations to out-of-town guests -
Many brides ponder whether or not it's appropriate to invite long distance guests for whom it may be impossible to attend. Use your best judgment. Is this person truly a close friend who would want to attend your celebration? If so, failing to extend an invitation may be insulting. Remember, these days friends and family are often spread all over the country, and people are accustomed to traveling. On the other hand, if you haven't spoken in years, an invitation may look like no more than a request for a gift. In those cases, send a wedding announcement instead, which carries no gift-giving obligation.

Gift-giving Etiquette:
Yes, we all love to receive gifts, and weddings are a perfect occasion for gift-giving. Friends and loved ones customarily honor the commitment of the newly betrothed by showering them with gifts. As the happy couple, just remember to always feel privileged—not entitled. So, let's review a bit of etiquette as it relates to wedding gifts...

1) Never mention gifts (gift choices or gift registry) on the invitation.
2) Publicize your registry information by word of mouth. It's also acceptable to include it on a wedding website or shower invitation (since showers are not typically hosted by the bride or groom)
3) There is no polite way to ask for cash gifts. This can only be done through word of mouth.
4) Honeymoon registries are appropriate.
5) Do not use any gifts until after a wedding.
6) All gifts, even shower gifts, must be returned if the wedding is cancelled or annulled before living together as a married couple.
7) Gift giving for vow renewal, reaffirmation ceremonies or encore weddings is not mandatory, but is a nice gesture.
8) There is no special formula for determining the appropriate amount a guest should spend on a gift. The idea that each gift should cost as much as one plate at the reception is an impractical misconception.

Attire Etiquette:
While rules for modern wedding attire have evolved with the times, there are still traditional standards for fabrics, lengths and styles. Here are some guidelines:

The formality of your bridesmaids' dresses should match that of your wedding dress. Although traditionally the dresses were the same length as the wedding gown, the rise in popularity of tea- and knee-length bridesmaids' dresses has relaxed that rule. As long as the fabric and overall style matches the formality of your floor-length gown, shorter bridesmaids' dresses are perfectly acceptable.

For evening weddings, guests should dress for a nice dinner or event - which includes suits (or black tie) for men and dresses or skirts in sophisticated colors and fabrics for women. Lengths can vary according to the style of the event and location. Female guests may now wear black, but never white.

The Cash Bar Issue:
Yes, weddings are expensive. Yes, couples should be on the lookout for budget saving tips. Yes, weddings are expensive - we know. But never - under any circumstances - should you ever consider hosting a cash bar at your reception. Think about it - you would never ask anyone to pay for a cocktail in your own home. People at your reception are still your guests, even if the event is not held in your house. That said, if a full bar is not within your budget, consider these alternatives:
Host a soft bar, in which guests can order champagne, beer and wine.

Find a reception site that allows you to bring in your own alcohol; you will save serious cash, and anything unopened can be returned for a full refund.

Cut down the size of your guest list - the only significant way to reduce costs in the first place.

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Jasmine

Cori Locklin is editor-in-chief for http://www.elegala.com and Elegala Magazine. Elegala is a new wedding wedding planning resource offering the most comprehensive portfolio of superior wedding reception sites and wedding vendors, with the planning tips to keep brides in the know on today's planning trends and styles. www.fun.createswebsites.com

8/27/06

Seasonal Theme Weddings

One way to make your wedding more memorable could be to have a theme wedding.

Taking the decision to have a theme wedding is the easier part. Deciding on the theme is harder. You could decide on a 17th century theme or a dream wedding theme, but while considering these themes, it is important to consider certain factors like cost, availability personnel etc.

If you are looking for a fresh look theme, look at your wedding date. Every season has its own charm and you could have a seasonal theme for your wedding that would incorporate all the glory, colours and beauty of the nature around you. It could be memorable and unique in its own way.

Many people like to get married in late winter or early spring when nature is at its best.

In spring everything looks fresh and new after the winter’s sleepy hibernation. In spring gardens and parks are in full bloom and the colors of nature are in full swing. Shades of pastel adorn the landscape with myriad shades and romance blossoms with a new haste and height. Having a spring season theme for your marriage would evoke the same feelings in your guests albeit to a lesser extent… (No-one can compete with nature… can they?).

Spring colors for the bridesmaids are pastel shades, each a different color would create a different look. Tables with snowdrops or daffodils… miniature ones of course would give a fresh look. Back it up with tulips adorning the décor. Fill old fashioned jam jars with fragrant candles for a garden ambience. You could add flavor to the wedding by adding pink champagne to the afternoon tea and organizing dance entertainment for the adults or an Easter Egg hunt for the young.

Another popular season for a wedding is the Summer; June, July and August being the most preferred months owing to the warm sunshine and reduced chance of bad weather. The color patterns of summer are spicier compared to the pastel shades of spring. A summer theme should aim to create a tropical ambience through the use of yellows, bright orange, lime green and hot pink color themes. You could spice it up by making the bridesmaids wearing clothes of vibrant colors and more so, if they carry an exotic tropical flower different from each other and different from the normal bouquet offerings. Have the wedding breakfast in the garden. A steel band can set the guests on fire with fun and relaxing aesthetics.

Autumn might bring some challenges to your creativity. Flowers are less abundant and the colors are down to earth with a mix of browns, gold, rust, coppers and reds. Substitute the flowers you carry with dried grass, wheat and berries, mix it up a little. Keep the food simple - soups, home made bread, fruits, cheese and roast meat. Halloween and romantic background music can work wonders with the ambience.

Winter, considered dull by some, can be the most is a magical time for weddings. The dark and cold nights could be converted to a warm ambience by use of candles, twinkling lights. Winter is when family gatherings have a special meaning and signals festive times. White, silver and green, and red are apt colors for a winter wedding theme. Adorn the bridesmaids with silver and turn the flower girls into little fairies with all the works – wands and wings. Tables can be adorned with white feathers and the best sweets and chocolates available, light them with indirect blue lights. Serve white chocolate with the proper adornments to get the best of the winter ambience.

Whatever the season you choose, a little creativity in the theme can go a long way in making your wedding the most memorable ever.

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8/25/06

The Cost of Being a Bridesmaid

How much can you expect to pay if you were to accept the role of a bridesmaid in a friend or family members wedding? Before saying yes and accepting this position, there are a few things to consider. Besides the time and effort it will take for the next eight to twelve months (depending on how far in advance you are asked to stand in the wedding), there are also the financial obligations involved.

The following is a short list of items you should take into consideration before making that all important decision to include or exclude yourself from the festivities.

The Dress: The bride will most likely expect a specific style of dress and will be instrumental in choosing what you will be wearing. If it's a lavish wedding and the bride has already picked out her gown, that would dictate the level of formality and therefore could end up costing you upwards of two to three hundred dollars (or more) for the dress alone.

The Shoes: Those satin shoes don't come cheap! The bride in all likelihood would expect you to wear satin dyed shoes to match the dress. Shop around for the best deals on the shoes and find a retailer who will provide the dying service for free or at a reduced rate if the entire bridal party makes their purchases through them.

Accessories: Hats, gloves, special brassieres or bustier, pantyhose, hair accessories and jewelery. Normally the jewelery is bought by the bride as a thank you gift, if not, be prepared to pay for the items the bride picks out for you to wear.

Hairstyling and accessories: You may be required to pay for your own hairstyling for the wedding day. Unless you already know the styles that look best on you, the procedure would be the same as that of the bride. First find a style. Second find a stylist you trust. Third, do a dry run by having the stylist try the style on you.

The Bridal Shower: Bridesmaids and the Maid of Honor usually host a bridal shower and divide the cost among themselves. Depending on what you have planned, this could be very costly.
Childcare: If you have children, you may need to get a sitter for the day. Do not assume they are invited guests simply because you are in the wedding party. If they are invited, you may need to make special arrangements to have childcare available during the wedding ceremony and reception since your job really isn't over until after the dinner and speeches have wrapped up.

Gifts: Even though you have already spent a great deal of money to get ready for your friends wedding, you still have to purchase a gift for the bride and groom. A sentimental gift is best but most often bridesmaids choose to give money in an envelope with a nice card. How much to place in the envelope is entirely up to you as well as the standards and trend in your area.

Thank you note: Finally after the wedding you should sit down and write a nice note to the newlyweds, thanking them for allowing you to be part of their important day.

After taking all this into consideration, you will be able to make a more informed decision and should be able to either accept or decline this invitation.

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Las Vegas Weddings - Tie the Knot in Luxury and Style

A wedding in Las Vegas means style statement, fun, and grandeur. Las Vegas weddings are the celebration of marriage. Las Vegas is also called the wedding capital of the world, as there are at least 110,000 weddings performed every year. There is no need for any blood tests, and the Marriage Bureau is open from 8 A.M. in the morning to midnight, through the week. On Friday/Saturday, it is open 24 hours. Las Vegas is the true city for lovers, helping them tie the knot in luxury and style.

Wedding Packages:

There are many websites where you can buy prearranged wedding packages online, so that you don’t have the hassles of arranging for chapels, rooms, and flowers etc. The packages come mostly with the additional service of an event planner who takes care of everything; they attend to the wedding preparations like booking rooms to stay in, the wedding cake, and the chapel etc.

The best part is that it does not cost you a fortune to get all these things set. Usually, the firm offering the package has deals fixed up before hand, so that you can get everything in a package at a cheap price.

You do not necessarily have to book online. If you want, you can visit the offices and speak with the planners to get a complete know how about what will be done, where, and how. The packages start from around US$299.00 for a normal package. The cost depends on décor, music, and photography etc. If you have a particular Las Vegas wedding location in mind, you can design your wedding around that with the help of these firms as well.

Some facilities available when a package is chosen are:

• Choice of chapel and music
• Custom cascade and boutonniere
• Choice of ceremony, unity or candlelight ceremony
• First dance, toast and glass flutes
• Professional photography

Wedding Chapels:

The wedding chapels are designed in Las Vegas' newest, most elegant bridal setting, with an opulence that can beat any other setting in the world. Las Vegas wedding chapels usually feature rich archways, and columns decorated with beautifully hand painted water and floral garden scenes. There are many dozen chapels where you can go for your weddings. It is sometimes difficult to fix one particular chapel in any location since there are so many of them.

Wedding Chapels in Casinos:

Wedding chapels at MGM Grand and Bellagio are the best in terms of style statement. They also offer complete services, from dresses, cakes, and photography etc. These chapels can seat right from 30 people to 160 people, based on the number of guests. The cost is usually upwards of US$400.

A wedding is a very emotional and memorable affair for two people tying the knot. Such an occasion requires careful planning, and in Las Vegas it's much more hassle-free than at any other place. With the help of professional wedding planners, a Las Vegas wedding can be pure fun and a very memorable event.

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Until Next Time!
Jasmine

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