Jewish marriage ceremonies are usually not held on the Sabbath (which lasts from sundown Friday to Sundown Saturday), nor can they occur on any of the major Jewish Holiday-the dates of which vary each year.
Whether the ceremony takes place indoors or out, it is generally held under a Chuppah, a canopy or cloth of flowers. The tradition of the chuppah is centuries old-it serves as a symbol of the new home the couple is about to enter. The bridal party stands under the canopy during the ceremony.
Another unique Jewish tradition is the reading of the ketubah, or marriage contract, during the ceremony. In the olden days, the contract mainly referred to financial obligations, but today it includes vows of commitment and faith. Couples can write their own Ketubah or use traditional wording.
Unlike in traditional Christian ceremonies, the Jewish bride is escorted down the aisle by both parents.
The height of the ceremony is the ring exchange. The seven wedding blessings--read in either English or Hebrew by the rabbi or honor attendants--end the actual ceremony.
At the close of the ceremony, it's customary for the groom to stomp on a glass and break it. The breaking of the glass signifies, among other things, that love and marriage are fragile and must be handled with care The glass is usually tucked away safely inside a decorated fabric bag or napkin so the groom won't get hurt.
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The Creative Jewish Wedding Book
A Hands-on Guide to New & Old Traditions, Ceremonies & Celebrations
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