8/31/06
Favors Around the World
In most cultures the wedding favor is an important symbol, saying "thank you for coming". Here are some takes on the wedding favor from around the world.
Italy
Italians give chocolates or candy filled with almonds or almond paste.
Middle East
Wedding favor tradition is centered around the Jordan almond. A candy-coated nut supposedly representing both the bitter and the sweet of marriage.
Malaysia
The traditional wedding favor is painted, decorated eggs - a symbol of fertility for the couple.
Russia and Japan
Both favor the same kinds of favors: both cultures are known for leaving nice gifts like picture frames, bud vases, or sachets as thank-yous.
The Netherlands
Favor tradition includes "Bridal Sugar" - five pieces of Dutch sweet candy wrapped in tulle. Each piece represents the five wedding wishes: love, happiness, loyalty, prosperity, and verility.
Ireland
The chime of bells is thought to restore harmony if a couple is fighting, and remind them of their wedding vows. Giving a bell as a gift to guests has become an Irish tradition.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/29/06
Explore the Varied Food Options for Weddings
The cake is just one course among the many food options available at today's wedding receptions.
The culmination of most weddings is the reception. At this party, guests typically dance, mingle and eat. Depending upon the scale of the wedding reception, the food service can be a spectacle in itself - beginning with an elaborate cocktail hour and ending with a decadent display of desserts.
When planning your wedding, your preferences and budget will dictate the type of food service and beverages you offer. However, part of deciding on what to select involves understanding the types of courses and foods involved. To make things easier, here is a brief rundown of food service typical for wedding receptions so you can make an informed decision.
COMMON SERVICES
· Open-Bar Service - Most couples choose to have an open bar at their wedding reception. This typically runs the duration of the reception or terminates an hour prior to the end of the evening. A premium bar service will include top-shelf liquors, frozen drinks, and cream-based drinks, in addition to nonalcoholic soft drinks. You can also choose to scale down bar service to only include wine, beer and soda.
· Cocktail Hour - During the cocktail hour, guests are treated to a display that appeals to all of the senses. This is where the reception hall really gets to shine in its food presentation. The cocktail hour may have a variety of food service options. They are typically offered buffet-style, or guests can visit stations to self-serve or be served by staff. Cold deli platters, breads, butler-passed hors d'oeuvres - appetizers carried on trays by staff members - as well as hot chafing dishes filled with pastas or other delights may also be available.
The cocktail hour may take place in a room separate from the main reception area or in the room itself. It will usually last an hour.
The bride and groom, as well as the wedding party, may be absent from the cocktail hour - enjoying their own snacks in a private bridal room. This helps create an aura of mystery and will allow them to make a grand entrance at the end of the cocktail hour.
· Main Dinner Service - With buffet-style, chafing dishes will be presented where guests choose from among menu items offered. A sit-down dinner service will allow guests to pick among two or three main courses offered - typically a fish, poultry or beef dish. Salad, soup or some small appetizer, like sliced fresh fruit, may also be served. A palate refresher - a lemon sorbet, or something similar - might also be served. This is used to break up the courses and cleanse the tongue of rich flavors so that the next food item will be presented in full flavor.
· Cake Service - After the cake-cutting tradition (if the couple opts to do so), a slice of wedding cake will be served to each of the guests. At this time, tea or coffee can also be served.
EXTRA TOUCHES
Some couples like to go above and beyond at their wedding reception. After all, this is a once-in-a-lifetime event for many. Here are some other services that may be offered to make the wedding extra special.
· Gourmet Coffee and Cordial Bar - Espresso, cappuccino and hot chocolate as well as cordials can be offered.
· Flambé - A spectacle in presentation, this dessert is set ablaze and served warm to guests.
· Viennese Hour (Dessert Bar) - A collection of gourmet cakes, pastries, cookies, ice cream, and other treats are offered for guests to indulge.
· Gourmet Salads/Top-Notch Cocktails - Some sites will offer the opportunity to serve more elaborate (and expensive) options at the cocktail hour. This could include seafood, like lobster, calamari and oysters, in addition to other gourmet culinary choices.
· Ice Sculpture - While not a food per se, some sites also give couples the option of having an ice sculpture adorn their cocktail service table to add flair and drama to the day.
When planning your wedding, be sure to discuss your meal preferences with your reception-site coordinator. If you have any dietary wishes (i.e. vegetarian meals, kosher preparation, ethnic requirements), make sure you can be accommodated.
Remember to have all of your options in writing and the costs spelled out clearly. This is likely to be the most expensive portion of your wedding, so be aware of what you're getting. Then, and most importantly, enjoy the day.
The culmination of most weddings is the reception. At this party, guests typically dance, mingle and eat. Depending upon the scale of the wedding reception, the food service can be a spectacle in itself - beginning with an elaborate cocktail hour and ending with a decadent display of desserts.
When planning your wedding, your preferences and budget will dictate the type of food service and beverages you offer. However, part of deciding on what to select involves understanding the types of courses and foods involved. To make things easier, here is a brief rundown of food service typical for wedding receptions so you can make an informed decision.
COMMON SERVICES
· Open-Bar Service - Most couples choose to have an open bar at their wedding reception. This typically runs the duration of the reception or terminates an hour prior to the end of the evening. A premium bar service will include top-shelf liquors, frozen drinks, and cream-based drinks, in addition to nonalcoholic soft drinks. You can also choose to scale down bar service to only include wine, beer and soda.
· Cocktail Hour - During the cocktail hour, guests are treated to a display that appeals to all of the senses. This is where the reception hall really gets to shine in its food presentation. The cocktail hour may have a variety of food service options. They are typically offered buffet-style, or guests can visit stations to self-serve or be served by staff. Cold deli platters, breads, butler-passed hors d'oeuvres - appetizers carried on trays by staff members - as well as hot chafing dishes filled with pastas or other delights may also be available.
The cocktail hour may take place in a room separate from the main reception area or in the room itself. It will usually last an hour.
The bride and groom, as well as the wedding party, may be absent from the cocktail hour - enjoying their own snacks in a private bridal room. This helps create an aura of mystery and will allow them to make a grand entrance at the end of the cocktail hour.
· Main Dinner Service - With buffet-style, chafing dishes will be presented where guests choose from among menu items offered. A sit-down dinner service will allow guests to pick among two or three main courses offered - typically a fish, poultry or beef dish. Salad, soup or some small appetizer, like sliced fresh fruit, may also be served. A palate refresher - a lemon sorbet, or something similar - might also be served. This is used to break up the courses and cleanse the tongue of rich flavors so that the next food item will be presented in full flavor.
· Cake Service - After the cake-cutting tradition (if the couple opts to do so), a slice of wedding cake will be served to each of the guests. At this time, tea or coffee can also be served.
EXTRA TOUCHES
Some couples like to go above and beyond at their wedding reception. After all, this is a once-in-a-lifetime event for many. Here are some other services that may be offered to make the wedding extra special.
· Gourmet Coffee and Cordial Bar - Espresso, cappuccino and hot chocolate as well as cordials can be offered.
· Flambé - A spectacle in presentation, this dessert is set ablaze and served warm to guests.
· Viennese Hour (Dessert Bar) - A collection of gourmet cakes, pastries, cookies, ice cream, and other treats are offered for guests to indulge.
· Gourmet Salads/Top-Notch Cocktails - Some sites will offer the opportunity to serve more elaborate (and expensive) options at the cocktail hour. This could include seafood, like lobster, calamari and oysters, in addition to other gourmet culinary choices.
· Ice Sculpture - While not a food per se, some sites also give couples the option of having an ice sculpture adorn their cocktail service table to add flair and drama to the day.
When planning your wedding, be sure to discuss your meal preferences with your reception-site coordinator. If you have any dietary wishes (i.e. vegetarian meals, kosher preparation, ethnic requirements), make sure you can be accommodated.
Remember to have all of your options in writing and the costs spelled out clearly. This is likely to be the most expensive portion of your wedding, so be aware of what you're getting. Then, and most importantly, enjoy the day.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/28/06
Wedding Etiquette - Your Most Common Wedding Dilemmas Solved
As one of the biggest and most potentially stressful events of your life, getting engaged and subsequently planning a wedding brings with it an onslaught of questions. As times change and weddings evolve, traditional rules of etiquette have followed suit, only adding to the confusion.
To gain perspective, first understand that "etiquette" is above all about treating people with courtesy and making them feel comfortable. When an etiquette question arises, consider the feelings of those who will be affected.
To steer you through the fog of questions, I've compiled a quick look at the top five most common wedding etiquette dilemmas: Family Etiquette, Invitation Etiquette, Gift Etiquette, Attire Etiquette and The Cash Bar Issue.
Family Etiquette:
Introducing Your Parents -
If the bride and groom's parents have not met prior to the engagement, tradition dictates that the groom's family calls and introduces themselves to the bride's family and arranges a meeting. If the groom's parents do not make the first introduction, then the bride's parents should. Nowadays, who makes the first call is irrelevant; all that really matters is that the parents meet. If meeting face to face is impossible, a letter or phone call will suffice.
Introducing Divorced Parents -
If the groom's parents are divorced, the parent with the closest relationship to the groom should take the first step in meeting the bride's parents. If both sets are divorced, the parent closest to the groom should first contact the bride's suggested parent. If no one begins the introduction process, the couple should step in and ensure that everyone meets, while refraining from forcing potentially awkward situations.
Your In-Laws -
The groom's parents often feel left out of the planning process. To avoid this, invite your future in-laws into the initial dialogue. You should immediately inform them of your ideas regarding location, date, size and style of the wedding. Take queues on their desired level of involvement and include them accordingly. Let them make offers to pitch in with finances or planning. Above all, keep them informed throughout your engagement.
Invitation Etiquette:
Inviting partners and guests -
If an invited guest is married, engaged or living with a significant other, that partner must be included in the invitation. A single invitation addressed to both individuals should be sent to spouses or couples who live together, while separate invitations should be sent to each member of an engaged or long term couple who don't live together. Inviting single guests with a date is a thoughtful gesture, but one that is not required. If you are inviting a single guest with a date, try to find out the name of your friend's intended date and include that person's name on the invitation. Otherwise, inner envelopes may include "And Guest," indicating that he or she may bring any chosen escort or friend.
Guests Who Ask to Bring a Guest -
Your guests should know better! It is never appropriate for a guest to ask to bring a date, and you have every right to politely say no. However, if you discover that a guest is engaged or living with a significant other, you should extend a written or verbal invitation.
Invitations to out-of-town guests -
Many brides ponder whether or not it's appropriate to invite long distance guests for whom it may be impossible to attend. Use your best judgment. Is this person truly a close friend who would want to attend your celebration? If so, failing to extend an invitation may be insulting. Remember, these days friends and family are often spread all over the country, and people are accustomed to traveling. On the other hand, if you haven't spoken in years, an invitation may look like no more than a request for a gift. In those cases, send a wedding announcement instead, which carries no gift-giving obligation.
Gift-giving Etiquette:
Yes, we all love to receive gifts, and weddings are a perfect occasion for gift-giving. Friends and loved ones customarily honor the commitment of the newly betrothed by showering them with gifts. As the happy couple, just remember to always feel privileged—not entitled. So, let's review a bit of etiquette as it relates to wedding gifts...
1) Never mention gifts (gift choices or gift registry) on the invitation.
2) Publicize your registry information by word of mouth. It's also acceptable to include it on a wedding website or shower invitation (since showers are not typically hosted by the bride or groom)
3) There is no polite way to ask for cash gifts. This can only be done through word of mouth.
4) Honeymoon registries are appropriate.
5) Do not use any gifts until after a wedding.
6) All gifts, even shower gifts, must be returned if the wedding is cancelled or annulled before living together as a married couple.
7) Gift giving for vow renewal, reaffirmation ceremonies or encore weddings is not mandatory, but is a nice gesture.
8) There is no special formula for determining the appropriate amount a guest should spend on a gift. The idea that each gift should cost as much as one plate at the reception is an impractical misconception.
Attire Etiquette:
While rules for modern wedding attire have evolved with the times, there are still traditional standards for fabrics, lengths and styles. Here are some guidelines:
The formality of your bridesmaids' dresses should match that of your wedding dress. Although traditionally the dresses were the same length as the wedding gown, the rise in popularity of tea- and knee-length bridesmaids' dresses has relaxed that rule. As long as the fabric and overall style matches the formality of your floor-length gown, shorter bridesmaids' dresses are perfectly acceptable.
For evening weddings, guests should dress for a nice dinner or event - which includes suits (or black tie) for men and dresses or skirts in sophisticated colors and fabrics for women. Lengths can vary according to the style of the event and location. Female guests may now wear black, but never white.
The Cash Bar Issue:
Yes, weddings are expensive. Yes, couples should be on the lookout for budget saving tips. Yes, weddings are expensive - we know. But never - under any circumstances - should you ever consider hosting a cash bar at your reception. Think about it - you would never ask anyone to pay for a cocktail in your own home. People at your reception are still your guests, even if the event is not held in your house. That said, if a full bar is not within your budget, consider these alternatives:
Host a soft bar, in which guests can order champagne, beer and wine.
Find a reception site that allows you to bring in your own alcohol; you will save serious cash, and anything unopened can be returned for a full refund.
Cut down the size of your guest list - the only significant way to reduce costs in the first place.
To gain perspective, first understand that "etiquette" is above all about treating people with courtesy and making them feel comfortable. When an etiquette question arises, consider the feelings of those who will be affected.
To steer you through the fog of questions, I've compiled a quick look at the top five most common wedding etiquette dilemmas: Family Etiquette, Invitation Etiquette, Gift Etiquette, Attire Etiquette and The Cash Bar Issue.
Family Etiquette:
Introducing Your Parents -
If the bride and groom's parents have not met prior to the engagement, tradition dictates that the groom's family calls and introduces themselves to the bride's family and arranges a meeting. If the groom's parents do not make the first introduction, then the bride's parents should. Nowadays, who makes the first call is irrelevant; all that really matters is that the parents meet. If meeting face to face is impossible, a letter or phone call will suffice.
Introducing Divorced Parents -
If the groom's parents are divorced, the parent with the closest relationship to the groom should take the first step in meeting the bride's parents. If both sets are divorced, the parent closest to the groom should first contact the bride's suggested parent. If no one begins the introduction process, the couple should step in and ensure that everyone meets, while refraining from forcing potentially awkward situations.
Your In-Laws -
The groom's parents often feel left out of the planning process. To avoid this, invite your future in-laws into the initial dialogue. You should immediately inform them of your ideas regarding location, date, size and style of the wedding. Take queues on their desired level of involvement and include them accordingly. Let them make offers to pitch in with finances or planning. Above all, keep them informed throughout your engagement.
Invitation Etiquette:
Inviting partners and guests -
If an invited guest is married, engaged or living with a significant other, that partner must be included in the invitation. A single invitation addressed to both individuals should be sent to spouses or couples who live together, while separate invitations should be sent to each member of an engaged or long term couple who don't live together. Inviting single guests with a date is a thoughtful gesture, but one that is not required. If you are inviting a single guest with a date, try to find out the name of your friend's intended date and include that person's name on the invitation. Otherwise, inner envelopes may include "And Guest," indicating that he or she may bring any chosen escort or friend.
Guests Who Ask to Bring a Guest -
Your guests should know better! It is never appropriate for a guest to ask to bring a date, and you have every right to politely say no. However, if you discover that a guest is engaged or living with a significant other, you should extend a written or verbal invitation.
Invitations to out-of-town guests -
Many brides ponder whether or not it's appropriate to invite long distance guests for whom it may be impossible to attend. Use your best judgment. Is this person truly a close friend who would want to attend your celebration? If so, failing to extend an invitation may be insulting. Remember, these days friends and family are often spread all over the country, and people are accustomed to traveling. On the other hand, if you haven't spoken in years, an invitation may look like no more than a request for a gift. In those cases, send a wedding announcement instead, which carries no gift-giving obligation.
Gift-giving Etiquette:
Yes, we all love to receive gifts, and weddings are a perfect occasion for gift-giving. Friends and loved ones customarily honor the commitment of the newly betrothed by showering them with gifts. As the happy couple, just remember to always feel privileged—not entitled. So, let's review a bit of etiquette as it relates to wedding gifts...
1) Never mention gifts (gift choices or gift registry) on the invitation.
2) Publicize your registry information by word of mouth. It's also acceptable to include it on a wedding website or shower invitation (since showers are not typically hosted by the bride or groom)
3) There is no polite way to ask for cash gifts. This can only be done through word of mouth.
4) Honeymoon registries are appropriate.
5) Do not use any gifts until after a wedding.
6) All gifts, even shower gifts, must be returned if the wedding is cancelled or annulled before living together as a married couple.
7) Gift giving for vow renewal, reaffirmation ceremonies or encore weddings is not mandatory, but is a nice gesture.
8) There is no special formula for determining the appropriate amount a guest should spend on a gift. The idea that each gift should cost as much as one plate at the reception is an impractical misconception.
Attire Etiquette:
While rules for modern wedding attire have evolved with the times, there are still traditional standards for fabrics, lengths and styles. Here are some guidelines:
The formality of your bridesmaids' dresses should match that of your wedding dress. Although traditionally the dresses were the same length as the wedding gown, the rise in popularity of tea- and knee-length bridesmaids' dresses has relaxed that rule. As long as the fabric and overall style matches the formality of your floor-length gown, shorter bridesmaids' dresses are perfectly acceptable.
For evening weddings, guests should dress for a nice dinner or event - which includes suits (or black tie) for men and dresses or skirts in sophisticated colors and fabrics for women. Lengths can vary according to the style of the event and location. Female guests may now wear black, but never white.
The Cash Bar Issue:
Yes, weddings are expensive. Yes, couples should be on the lookout for budget saving tips. Yes, weddings are expensive - we know. But never - under any circumstances - should you ever consider hosting a cash bar at your reception. Think about it - you would never ask anyone to pay for a cocktail in your own home. People at your reception are still your guests, even if the event is not held in your house. That said, if a full bar is not within your budget, consider these alternatives:
Host a soft bar, in which guests can order champagne, beer and wine.
Find a reception site that allows you to bring in your own alcohol; you will save serious cash, and anything unopened can be returned for a full refund.
Cut down the size of your guest list - the only significant way to reduce costs in the first place.
Fun Sites:
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/27/06
Seasonal Theme Weddings
One way to make your wedding more memorable could be to have a theme wedding.
Taking the decision to have a theme wedding is the easier part. Deciding on the theme is harder. You could decide on a 17th century theme or a dream wedding theme, but while considering these themes, it is important to consider certain factors like cost, availability personnel etc.
If you are looking for a fresh look theme, look at your wedding date. Every season has its own charm and you could have a seasonal theme for your wedding that would incorporate all the glory, colours and beauty of the nature around you. It could be memorable and unique in its own way.
Many people like to get married in late winter or early spring when nature is at its best.
In spring everything looks fresh and new after the winter’s sleepy hibernation. In spring gardens and parks are in full bloom and the colors of nature are in full swing. Shades of pastel adorn the landscape with myriad shades and romance blossoms with a new haste and height. Having a spring season theme for your marriage would evoke the same feelings in your guests albeit to a lesser extent… (No-one can compete with nature… can they?).
Spring colors for the bridesmaids are pastel shades, each a different color would create a different look. Tables with snowdrops or daffodils… miniature ones of course would give a fresh look. Back it up with tulips adorning the décor. Fill old fashioned jam jars with fragrant candles for a garden ambience. You could add flavor to the wedding by adding pink champagne to the afternoon tea and organizing dance entertainment for the adults or an Easter Egg hunt for the young.
Another popular season for a wedding is the Summer; June, July and August being the most preferred months owing to the warm sunshine and reduced chance of bad weather. The color patterns of summer are spicier compared to the pastel shades of spring. A summer theme should aim to create a tropical ambience through the use of yellows, bright orange, lime green and hot pink color themes. You could spice it up by making the bridesmaids wearing clothes of vibrant colors and more so, if they carry an exotic tropical flower different from each other and different from the normal bouquet offerings. Have the wedding breakfast in the garden. A steel band can set the guests on fire with fun and relaxing aesthetics.
Autumn might bring some challenges to your creativity. Flowers are less abundant and the colors are down to earth with a mix of browns, gold, rust, coppers and reds. Substitute the flowers you carry with dried grass, wheat and berries, mix it up a little. Keep the food simple - soups, home made bread, fruits, cheese and roast meat. Halloween and romantic background music can work wonders with the ambience.
Winter, considered dull by some, can be the most is a magical time for weddings. The dark and cold nights could be converted to a warm ambience by use of candles, twinkling lights. Winter is when family gatherings have a special meaning and signals festive times. White, silver and green, and red are apt colors for a winter wedding theme. Adorn the bridesmaids with silver and turn the flower girls into little fairies with all the works – wands and wings. Tables can be adorned with white feathers and the best sweets and chocolates available, light them with indirect blue lights. Serve white chocolate with the proper adornments to get the best of the winter ambience.
Whatever the season you choose, a little creativity in the theme can go a long way in making your wedding the most memorable ever.
Fun Site:
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
Jane Martin is the founder of http://www.WeddingPlanSecrets.com which offer inside secrets from within the wedding industry as well as more advice on Theme Weddings. www.fun.createswebsites.com http://windsor.weddingwindow.com
Taking the decision to have a theme wedding is the easier part. Deciding on the theme is harder. You could decide on a 17th century theme or a dream wedding theme, but while considering these themes, it is important to consider certain factors like cost, availability personnel etc.
If you are looking for a fresh look theme, look at your wedding date. Every season has its own charm and you could have a seasonal theme for your wedding that would incorporate all the glory, colours and beauty of the nature around you. It could be memorable and unique in its own way.
Many people like to get married in late winter or early spring when nature is at its best.
In spring everything looks fresh and new after the winter’s sleepy hibernation. In spring gardens and parks are in full bloom and the colors of nature are in full swing. Shades of pastel adorn the landscape with myriad shades and romance blossoms with a new haste and height. Having a spring season theme for your marriage would evoke the same feelings in your guests albeit to a lesser extent… (No-one can compete with nature… can they?).
Spring colors for the bridesmaids are pastel shades, each a different color would create a different look. Tables with snowdrops or daffodils… miniature ones of course would give a fresh look. Back it up with tulips adorning the décor. Fill old fashioned jam jars with fragrant candles for a garden ambience. You could add flavor to the wedding by adding pink champagne to the afternoon tea and organizing dance entertainment for the adults or an Easter Egg hunt for the young.
Another popular season for a wedding is the Summer; June, July and August being the most preferred months owing to the warm sunshine and reduced chance of bad weather. The color patterns of summer are spicier compared to the pastel shades of spring. A summer theme should aim to create a tropical ambience through the use of yellows, bright orange, lime green and hot pink color themes. You could spice it up by making the bridesmaids wearing clothes of vibrant colors and more so, if they carry an exotic tropical flower different from each other and different from the normal bouquet offerings. Have the wedding breakfast in the garden. A steel band can set the guests on fire with fun and relaxing aesthetics.
Autumn might bring some challenges to your creativity. Flowers are less abundant and the colors are down to earth with a mix of browns, gold, rust, coppers and reds. Substitute the flowers you carry with dried grass, wheat and berries, mix it up a little. Keep the food simple - soups, home made bread, fruits, cheese and roast meat. Halloween and romantic background music can work wonders with the ambience.
Winter, considered dull by some, can be the most is a magical time for weddings. The dark and cold nights could be converted to a warm ambience by use of candles, twinkling lights. Winter is when family gatherings have a special meaning and signals festive times. White, silver and green, and red are apt colors for a winter wedding theme. Adorn the bridesmaids with silver and turn the flower girls into little fairies with all the works – wands and wings. Tables can be adorned with white feathers and the best sweets and chocolates available, light them with indirect blue lights. Serve white chocolate with the proper adornments to get the best of the winter ambience.
Whatever the season you choose, a little creativity in the theme can go a long way in making your wedding the most memorable ever.
Fun Site:
Honeymoon Cruise (Click Here!)
Until Next Time!
Jasmine
Jane Martin is the founder of http://www.WeddingPlanSecrets.com which offer inside secrets from within the wedding industry as well as more advice on Theme Weddings. www.fun.createswebsites.com http://windsor.weddingwindow.com
8/25/06
The Cost of Being a Bridesmaid
How much can you expect to pay if you were to accept the role of a bridesmaid in a friend or family members wedding? Before saying yes and accepting this position, there are a few things to consider. Besides the time and effort it will take for the next eight to twelve months (depending on how far in advance you are asked to stand in the wedding), there are also the financial obligations involved.
The following is a short list of items you should take into consideration before making that all important decision to include or exclude yourself from the festivities.
The Dress: The bride will most likely expect a specific style of dress and will be instrumental in choosing what you will be wearing. If it's a lavish wedding and the bride has already picked out her gown, that would dictate the level of formality and therefore could end up costing you upwards of two to three hundred dollars (or more) for the dress alone.
The Shoes: Those satin shoes don't come cheap! The bride in all likelihood would expect you to wear satin dyed shoes to match the dress. Shop around for the best deals on the shoes and find a retailer who will provide the dying service for free or at a reduced rate if the entire bridal party makes their purchases through them.
Accessories: Hats, gloves, special brassieres or bustier, pantyhose, hair accessories and jewelery. Normally the jewelery is bought by the bride as a thank you gift, if not, be prepared to pay for the items the bride picks out for you to wear.
Hairstyling and accessories: You may be required to pay for your own hairstyling for the wedding day. Unless you already know the styles that look best on you, the procedure would be the same as that of the bride. First find a style. Second find a stylist you trust. Third, do a dry run by having the stylist try the style on you.
The Bridal Shower: Bridesmaids and the Maid of Honor usually host a bridal shower and divide the cost among themselves. Depending on what you have planned, this could be very costly.
Childcare: If you have children, you may need to get a sitter for the day. Do not assume they are invited guests simply because you are in the wedding party. If they are invited, you may need to make special arrangements to have childcare available during the wedding ceremony and reception since your job really isn't over until after the dinner and speeches have wrapped up.
Gifts: Even though you have already spent a great deal of money to get ready for your friends wedding, you still have to purchase a gift for the bride and groom. A sentimental gift is best but most often bridesmaids choose to give money in an envelope with a nice card. How much to place in the envelope is entirely up to you as well as the standards and trend in your area.
Thank you note: Finally after the wedding you should sit down and write a nice note to the newlyweds, thanking them for allowing you to be part of their important day.
After taking all this into consideration, you will be able to make a more informed decision and should be able to either accept or decline this invitation.
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Jasmine
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The following is a short list of items you should take into consideration before making that all important decision to include or exclude yourself from the festivities.
The Dress: The bride will most likely expect a specific style of dress and will be instrumental in choosing what you will be wearing. If it's a lavish wedding and the bride has already picked out her gown, that would dictate the level of formality and therefore could end up costing you upwards of two to three hundred dollars (or more) for the dress alone.
The Shoes: Those satin shoes don't come cheap! The bride in all likelihood would expect you to wear satin dyed shoes to match the dress. Shop around for the best deals on the shoes and find a retailer who will provide the dying service for free or at a reduced rate if the entire bridal party makes their purchases through them.
Accessories: Hats, gloves, special brassieres or bustier, pantyhose, hair accessories and jewelery. Normally the jewelery is bought by the bride as a thank you gift, if not, be prepared to pay for the items the bride picks out for you to wear.
Hairstyling and accessories: You may be required to pay for your own hairstyling for the wedding day. Unless you already know the styles that look best on you, the procedure would be the same as that of the bride. First find a style. Second find a stylist you trust. Third, do a dry run by having the stylist try the style on you.
The Bridal Shower: Bridesmaids and the Maid of Honor usually host a bridal shower and divide the cost among themselves. Depending on what you have planned, this could be very costly.
Childcare: If you have children, you may need to get a sitter for the day. Do not assume they are invited guests simply because you are in the wedding party. If they are invited, you may need to make special arrangements to have childcare available during the wedding ceremony and reception since your job really isn't over until after the dinner and speeches have wrapped up.
Gifts: Even though you have already spent a great deal of money to get ready for your friends wedding, you still have to purchase a gift for the bride and groom. A sentimental gift is best but most often bridesmaids choose to give money in an envelope with a nice card. How much to place in the envelope is entirely up to you as well as the standards and trend in your area.
Thank you note: Finally after the wedding you should sit down and write a nice note to the newlyweds, thanking them for allowing you to be part of their important day.
After taking all this into consideration, you will be able to make a more informed decision and should be able to either accept or decline this invitation.
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Las Vegas Weddings - Tie the Knot in Luxury and Style
A wedding in Las Vegas means style statement, fun, and grandeur. Las Vegas weddings are the celebration of marriage. Las Vegas is also called the wedding capital of the world, as there are at least 110,000 weddings performed every year. There is no need for any blood tests, and the Marriage Bureau is open from 8 A.M. in the morning to midnight, through the week. On Friday/Saturday, it is open 24 hours. Las Vegas is the true city for lovers, helping them tie the knot in luxury and style.
Wedding Packages:
There are many websites where you can buy prearranged wedding packages online, so that you don’t have the hassles of arranging for chapels, rooms, and flowers etc. The packages come mostly with the additional service of an event planner who takes care of everything; they attend to the wedding preparations like booking rooms to stay in, the wedding cake, and the chapel etc.
The best part is that it does not cost you a fortune to get all these things set. Usually, the firm offering the package has deals fixed up before hand, so that you can get everything in a package at a cheap price.
You do not necessarily have to book online. If you want, you can visit the offices and speak with the planners to get a complete know how about what will be done, where, and how. The packages start from around US$299.00 for a normal package. The cost depends on décor, music, and photography etc. If you have a particular Las Vegas wedding location in mind, you can design your wedding around that with the help of these firms as well.
Some facilities available when a package is chosen are:
• Choice of chapel and music
• Custom cascade and boutonniere
• Choice of ceremony, unity or candlelight ceremony
• First dance, toast and glass flutes
• Professional photography
Wedding Chapels:
The wedding chapels are designed in Las Vegas' newest, most elegant bridal setting, with an opulence that can beat any other setting in the world. Las Vegas wedding chapels usually feature rich archways, and columns decorated with beautifully hand painted water and floral garden scenes. There are many dozen chapels where you can go for your weddings. It is sometimes difficult to fix one particular chapel in any location since there are so many of them.
Wedding Chapels in Casinos:
Wedding chapels at MGM Grand and Bellagio are the best in terms of style statement. They also offer complete services, from dresses, cakes, and photography etc. These chapels can seat right from 30 people to 160 people, based on the number of guests. The cost is usually upwards of US$400.
A wedding is a very emotional and memorable affair for two people tying the knot. Such an occasion requires careful planning, and in Las Vegas it's much more hassle-free than at any other place. With the help of professional wedding planners, a Las Vegas wedding can be pure fun and a very memorable event.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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Wedding Packages:
There are many websites where you can buy prearranged wedding packages online, so that you don’t have the hassles of arranging for chapels, rooms, and flowers etc. The packages come mostly with the additional service of an event planner who takes care of everything; they attend to the wedding preparations like booking rooms to stay in, the wedding cake, and the chapel etc.
The best part is that it does not cost you a fortune to get all these things set. Usually, the firm offering the package has deals fixed up before hand, so that you can get everything in a package at a cheap price.
You do not necessarily have to book online. If you want, you can visit the offices and speak with the planners to get a complete know how about what will be done, where, and how. The packages start from around US$299.00 for a normal package. The cost depends on décor, music, and photography etc. If you have a particular Las Vegas wedding location in mind, you can design your wedding around that with the help of these firms as well.
Some facilities available when a package is chosen are:
• Choice of chapel and music
• Custom cascade and boutonniere
• Choice of ceremony, unity or candlelight ceremony
• First dance, toast and glass flutes
• Professional photography
Wedding Chapels:
The wedding chapels are designed in Las Vegas' newest, most elegant bridal setting, with an opulence that can beat any other setting in the world. Las Vegas wedding chapels usually feature rich archways, and columns decorated with beautifully hand painted water and floral garden scenes. There are many dozen chapels where you can go for your weddings. It is sometimes difficult to fix one particular chapel in any location since there are so many of them.
Wedding Chapels in Casinos:
Wedding chapels at MGM Grand and Bellagio are the best in terms of style statement. They also offer complete services, from dresses, cakes, and photography etc. These chapels can seat right from 30 people to 160 people, based on the number of guests. The cost is usually upwards of US$400.
A wedding is a very emotional and memorable affair for two people tying the knot. Such an occasion requires careful planning, and in Las Vegas it's much more hassle-free than at any other place. With the help of professional wedding planners, a Las Vegas wedding can be pure fun and a very memorable event.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/24/06
Do-It-Yourself Keepsake Box
Want to make the bride in your life a gift she'll never forget? With a little ingenuity, you can create a keepsake memory box for her that she'll have to remember her wedding day by forever and always.
The General Idea
Take a beautiful, fabric-covered hatbox (the Victorians were crazy about them) and fill it with special wedding-day items that the bride can use, then return to aforesaid box for a lifetime of safekeeping. You can put anything you want in there, including something old, new, borrowed, blue; things she will actually use like a guestbook and pen or a pretty hankie. Our dear friend Molly was getting married, so we decided to put together an "ultimate wedding day dream box" for her, and here's what was in it.
The Box Itself
We chose a very large round hatbox covered with the prettiest ivory floral brocade. The reason we liked it so much: It was lined with satin so all the gifts looked like they were laying on a pillow!
Something Old
Okay, so we had some really funny photos of Mol from when she was a baby that we begged off her sister (the naked-in-the-bathtub kind) as well as her senior prom picture. We took one of her adorable school pictures and put it in a personalized picture frame with "She's all grown up now!" engraved on the frame, along with her wedding date. All of us signed the back.
Something New
In keeping with our flowery-Victorian theme, we placed a fancy cake serving set in the box for Molly and her new husband to play kissy-eatie-face. We assumed, after a good washing, she would return the cake serving set to her memory box.
Something Borrowed
Molly's mom gave us a beautiful lace hankie that belonged to Molly's great-grandmother. We attached a note explaining the significance. Molly carried it on her wedding day. Very sentimental!
Something Blue
We decided on a wonderful chiffon garter with blue ribbon. Keepsakes can sometimes be sexy, can't they?
Snapshot Memories
No memory box is complete without a good place to put wedding candids. This was Molly's own album - for her memories of the shower, the bachelorette party, and of course the wedding.
We ended up quite pleased with ourselves over and little memory box idea. It turned out beautifully, and just as we had predicted - when Molly unwrapped it, she started to cry.
Until Next time!
Jasmine
Jennifer Baumann is editor of Wedding Gazette, the resource for real-world wedding planning that's packed with info on how to plan your budget, how to avoid killing certain family members, exhaustive theme ideas, plus tons of resources on finding favors, necessary accessories, gifts for your groomsmen, and much more. http://funweddings.blogspot.com , www.fun.createswebsites.com
The General Idea
Take a beautiful, fabric-covered hatbox (the Victorians were crazy about them) and fill it with special wedding-day items that the bride can use, then return to aforesaid box for a lifetime of safekeeping. You can put anything you want in there, including something old, new, borrowed, blue; things she will actually use like a guestbook and pen or a pretty hankie. Our dear friend Molly was getting married, so we decided to put together an "ultimate wedding day dream box" for her, and here's what was in it.
The Box Itself
We chose a very large round hatbox covered with the prettiest ivory floral brocade. The reason we liked it so much: It was lined with satin so all the gifts looked like they were laying on a pillow!
Something Old
Okay, so we had some really funny photos of Mol from when she was a baby that we begged off her sister (the naked-in-the-bathtub kind) as well as her senior prom picture. We took one of her adorable school pictures and put it in a personalized picture frame with "She's all grown up now!" engraved on the frame, along with her wedding date. All of us signed the back.
Something New
In keeping with our flowery-Victorian theme, we placed a fancy cake serving set in the box for Molly and her new husband to play kissy-eatie-face. We assumed, after a good washing, she would return the cake serving set to her memory box.
Something Borrowed
Molly's mom gave us a beautiful lace hankie that belonged to Molly's great-grandmother. We attached a note explaining the significance. Molly carried it on her wedding day. Very sentimental!
Something Blue
We decided on a wonderful chiffon garter with blue ribbon. Keepsakes can sometimes be sexy, can't they?
Snapshot Memories
No memory box is complete without a good place to put wedding candids. This was Molly's own album - for her memories of the shower, the bachelorette party, and of course the wedding.
We ended up quite pleased with ourselves over and little memory box idea. It turned out beautifully, and just as we had predicted - when Molly unwrapped it, she started to cry.
Until Next time!
Jasmine
Jennifer Baumann is editor of Wedding Gazette, the resource for real-world wedding planning that's packed with info on how to plan your budget, how to avoid killing certain family members, exhaustive theme ideas, plus tons of resources on finding favors, necessary accessories, gifts for your groomsmen, and much more. http://funweddings.blogspot.com , www.fun.createswebsites.com
8/23/06
Wedding Day Emergency Kit
If you have ever attended a wedding or served as a member of the wedding party, you know that things do not always go as smoothly as planned. That is why it is a great idea to pack an Emergency Wedding Kit. You and your bridesmaids will feel more secure knowing that you have your grooming supplies stashed nearby.
Here is a list of items you may want to pack:
Nylons - Don't forget to add a few extra pairs for your birdesmaids!
Here is a list of items you may want to pack:
Nylons - Don't forget to add a few extra pairs for your birdesmaids!
Clear Nail Polish - Great to stop snags in nylons before it becomes a run
Aspirin, Alka-Seltzer, Antacids, Eyedrops, and Allergy medicine (if necessary)
Masking Tape- To fix hems
Emery Board/Nail file plus a bottle of the nail polish you are wearing
Hair Accessories-Hair dryer, hair spray, brush, comb, curling iron, bobby pins etc.
Safety Pins
White Chalk - Great for covering stains on a white dress
Tissues
Small sewing kit- needles, threads, scissors,
Wet hand wipes
Make-up remover pen (or wipes) to fix smeared eye makeup and lipstick
Make-up - Lip gloss, foundation, lipstick, mascara, powder, blush etc. Put all your makeup plus a compact mirror in a small cosmetic bag for quick touch-ups throughout the day.
Breathmints
Small bottle of water
Healthy snacks such as granola bars in case someone in your bridal party feels weak before the ceremony.
Shoe polish, lint brush
Cell phone - Don't forget to turn off before ceremony!
It is a good idea to pack your Emergency kit the day before the wedding so you don't forget anything. During the reception have one of your bridal attendants stash the kit away for easy access.
Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/22/06
Tips on Cutting Your Wedding Costs
The most important thing you must consider when planning a wedding is your budget. With the following cost cutting tips you can have a beautiful wedding without going into debt.
1.Create your own invitations
With a little practice you can create professional looking invitations. Buy high quality blank invitation forms. Make sure to use a typeface that is formal, crisp and easy to read for professional-looking results.
2. Gowns
Save money on your Wedding gown and Bridesmaid dresses by shopping at a bridal discount outlets. If alterations are necessary, take the dresses to a local seamstress. If you need a bridal gown slip, rent it rather than buy it.
3. Limit your attendants to Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man. You will save money on clothing, gifts, and food costs at the rehearsal dinner.
4. Get married in the morning: afternoon and evening weddings are more expensive.
5. For an indoor wedding consider having your reception at a restaurant. Most charge less than a hotel or country club. Plus restaurants do not charge room fees like many facilities.
6. Consider having your reception at a park or public garden rather than an expensive hall. Most public parks are free or charge a small fee.
7. Cut Reception Food Costs
Limit the number of guests to those you really want there. (Remember caterer's charge per person).
Forego the multi-course dinner in favor of a brunch, luncheon, a dessert reception, or even a cocktail party.
8. Cut Bar Reception Costs
Serve only beer, wine, and soft drinks. Do not offer mixed drinks. By eliminating mixed drinks you may be able to cut your bar bill in half.
Consider offering a full bar for the first hour or two and then switch to a cash bar.
Do not have waiters/waitresses serve the guest drinks. If a people have to actually go get their own drinks, they will probably drink less, therefore saving you money.
9. Party Favors
You can save hundreds of dollars by eliminating the party favors. If you absolutely want favors, why not make your own? How about buying bags of Hershey kisses and wrapping a few into a small piece of organza cloth and tying it with a cute ribbon.
Forego the printed napkins and matches to save even more money. Also, do you really need a gold embossed guest book? Probably not! Why not purchase a nice guest book at your local stationery store.
10. Wedding Cake
Wedding cakes can be very expensive. To save money on your cake contact a nearby college that offers cooking classes for referrals. A recent Graduate can make you a gorgeous cake a lot cheaper than a professional baker.
To really save money on your cake you could consider using a display cake (A dummy Styrofoam cake) for the display table. A display cake will look exactly like a real cake and your guests would never know the difference. Since you do not have a real cake your caterer can serve guests slices of sheet cake which costs a fraction of the cost of wedding cake.
11. Music
Hire a DJ rather than a live band. If you want live music, visit the music department at your local college for referrals. There are many talented music students who would gladly play at your wedding.
12. Flowers
Why not make your own bouquet? Buy a pretty bouquet of flowers or pick wild flowers and tie them together with wire. Then wrap the wire with a pretty ribbon. (Hint: Roses are not good flowers for bouquets as they fall apart rather easily).
If you want to purchase a professional bouquet, remember to always use flowers in season to save money.
Rather than purchase expensive boutonnieres for the men, why not pin a single flower to the jacket lapel.
13. Table Displays
You do not need expensive flower table displays for your reception. Why not put pretty flowers in a small vase on each table. All the vases do not have to match. In fact, it can look striking if you use a different vase and flower on each table.
Rather than flowers, decorate each table with candles. Here are some tips:
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1.Create your own invitations
With a little practice you can create professional looking invitations. Buy high quality blank invitation forms. Make sure to use a typeface that is formal, crisp and easy to read for professional-looking results.
2. Gowns
Save money on your Wedding gown and Bridesmaid dresses by shopping at a bridal discount outlets. If alterations are necessary, take the dresses to a local seamstress. If you need a bridal gown slip, rent it rather than buy it.
3. Limit your attendants to Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man. You will save money on clothing, gifts, and food costs at the rehearsal dinner.
4. Get married in the morning: afternoon and evening weddings are more expensive.
5. For an indoor wedding consider having your reception at a restaurant. Most charge less than a hotel or country club. Plus restaurants do not charge room fees like many facilities.
6. Consider having your reception at a park or public garden rather than an expensive hall. Most public parks are free or charge a small fee.
7. Cut Reception Food Costs
Limit the number of guests to those you really want there. (Remember caterer's charge per person).
Forego the multi-course dinner in favor of a brunch, luncheon, a dessert reception, or even a cocktail party.
8. Cut Bar Reception Costs
Serve only beer, wine, and soft drinks. Do not offer mixed drinks. By eliminating mixed drinks you may be able to cut your bar bill in half.
Consider offering a full bar for the first hour or two and then switch to a cash bar.
Do not have waiters/waitresses serve the guest drinks. If a people have to actually go get their own drinks, they will probably drink less, therefore saving you money.
9. Party Favors
You can save hundreds of dollars by eliminating the party favors. If you absolutely want favors, why not make your own? How about buying bags of Hershey kisses and wrapping a few into a small piece of organza cloth and tying it with a cute ribbon.
Forego the printed napkins and matches to save even more money. Also, do you really need a gold embossed guest book? Probably not! Why not purchase a nice guest book at your local stationery store.
10. Wedding Cake
Wedding cakes can be very expensive. To save money on your cake contact a nearby college that offers cooking classes for referrals. A recent Graduate can make you a gorgeous cake a lot cheaper than a professional baker.
To really save money on your cake you could consider using a display cake (A dummy Styrofoam cake) for the display table. A display cake will look exactly like a real cake and your guests would never know the difference. Since you do not have a real cake your caterer can serve guests slices of sheet cake which costs a fraction of the cost of wedding cake.
11. Music
Hire a DJ rather than a live band. If you want live music, visit the music department at your local college for referrals. There are many talented music students who would gladly play at your wedding.
12. Flowers
Why not make your own bouquet? Buy a pretty bouquet of flowers or pick wild flowers and tie them together with wire. Then wrap the wire with a pretty ribbon. (Hint: Roses are not good flowers for bouquets as they fall apart rather easily).
If you want to purchase a professional bouquet, remember to always use flowers in season to save money.
Rather than purchase expensive boutonnieres for the men, why not pin a single flower to the jacket lapel.
13. Table Displays
You do not need expensive flower table displays for your reception. Why not put pretty flowers in a small vase on each table. All the vases do not have to match. In fact, it can look striking if you use a different vase and flower on each table.
Rather than flowers, decorate each table with candles. Here are some tips:
- Buy some candles and tie ribbons around them then slip a single flower inside the ribbon. Keep the ribbon long and let it cascade down to the table.
- Put a couple of floating candles in a clear glass bowl along with a few fresh flower heads. You can buy a plant like a Chrysanthemum for a couple of dollars and cut the flowers off.
- Votive candles on top of a mirror makes a romantic centerpiece for an evening reception.
14. Photographer
Hiring a professional photographer/videographer is very expensive. Consider asking a photographer friend to do the honors( Perhaps as a wedding present).
If you want professional photos, consider hiring a photographer for the formal shots of your ceremony only. Then place disposable cameras on every table. Not only will your guests have fun, but you'll get dozens of photographs as momentos at very little cost.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
8/21/06
Remember a Loved One at Your Wedding
It's your wedding day, and you can't imagine having it without someone you loved dearly. Here are some ideas for a memorial candle ceremony.
Light a Memorial Candle
Provide a second table at the altar or near the front of the church. On it, place a Memorial Candle in tribute to your loved ones.
Ask your officiant to include them at the beginning of the candle-lighting ceremony. For example, "Before (Bride) and (Groom) light a candle to symbolize their union, they will light a candle in honor of (Loved One), whom they dearly miss, and who they know is present with them here today."
Then, light the Memorial Candle, ask the officiant to say a prayer, then move to the altar to light your Unity Candle.
Light Taper Candles In Memorium
It is traditional to have one or both parents light the individual tapers for their children before the bride and groom light the Unity Candle. If one or both of your parents is deceased, the bride or groom can light the taper and ask the officiant to acknowledge the act before the Unity Candle is lit.
You may also think of using candelabras, and having sisters, brothers, or other family members light a candle for each relative that is no longer with you.
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Until next time!
Jasmine
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8/20/06
White Gold or Platinum Wedding Band?
Part of the beauty of an engagement is choosing a wedding band. With today’s choices, a couple has far more options than ever before. Yellow gold will always be a timeless classic, but wedding bands, just like the times, are changing. Today’s most popular options are white gold or platinum. There is an assumption that because of the same, shiny, whitish color, both metals are equivalent. However, that could not be further from the truth.
A white gold ring is an alloy of regular gold combined with other metals such as silver and palladium or nickel. Part of what makes white gold look almost identical to platinum is a finishing process that occurs when the ring is being made. The white gold ring is finished with a coating of Rhodium, a metal that shares many of Platinum’s properties. While white gold is naturally a light shade of gray or has a slight yellow tint because of the natural color of gold, the Rhodium coating gives the completed ring a sparkly white color.
The main downfall to a white gold ring is that without proper care, the Rhodium will eventually wear off and change the color of the ring. With proper replatement every 1-3 years, the rhodium will stay lustrous and the ring beautiful.
Platinum differs from gold because it is used almost entirely in its pure form when making a platinum wedding band, as opposed to being combined with different metals. Platinum rings do not need to be treated with Rhodium because the natural color of platinum is the desired shining white.
Platinum is a good material to choose if you are harder on things, or constantly on the go, because it wears longer. It is a heavier, denser metal, which allows it to be more scratch-resistant than white gold.
The downside is that platinum, because it is not mixed to make up the composition of the wedding band, tends to be far more expensive. The normal guideline when shopping for rings is to expect a platinum wedding band to be up to two to four times more expensive than its white gold counterpart, depending on the complexity of the design and the weight (gold or platinum content) of the wedding ring.
To see a sample of a white gold or platinum wedding band, online wedding band stores are an excellent resource. Online jewelers and other wedding jewelers offer an excellent way of researching or shopping for your perfect wedding ring! Regardless of your choice of metal, both white gold and platinum make for a beautiful wedding band.
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Until next time!
Jasmine
Afshin Yaghtin graduated as an English major at UCLA and furthered his education at the University of Wales in Aberystwyth with a M.A. in postmodern American literature before starting his own business at http://wedding-band-ring.com. He lives in California with his wife & 3 adorable, rambunctious kids. Read more articles by: Afshin Yaghtin www.iSnare.com www.fun.createswebsites.com, http://windsor.weddingwindow.com
8/19/06
Four Sure Cures To Prenuptial Stress
• Arguing with your fiancé more than normal? • Finding it increasingly difficult to make decisions? • Finding it increasingly difficult to focus on a task? • Minor things irritating you more? • Frequently feeling lethargic? • Having trouble sleeping? • Suffering from headaches?
If the answer is yes to more than 3 of these questions, then chances are you’re suffering from stress.
Most of us have a broad sense of what stress is and how it can positively or negatively affect our lives; however, many of us choose to ignore the build up, until something significant occurs.
In Psychology marriage is considered to be a significant life change. Research by Holmes and Rahe (1967) lead to the development of the ‘Social readjustment rating scale’. The Scale ranked and weighted life events with regard to the amount of stress a person experiences at a given period of time.
Out of 43 life events ‘marriage’ was ranked in the top 20%, higher than ‘pregnancy’, ‘Fired from work’ and even ‘death of a close friend’.
So there it is! Empirical evidence shows us how it is extremely common to be stressed out of our minds when it comes to getting married.
If you don’t want to go down the route of a nervous breakdown, here are a few handy suggestions:
1. Make a date
Planning a wedding can place considerable strain on your relationship. As the wedding date grows nearer more and more emphasis tends to be placed on the event, drawing your attentions away from each other. It is very easy to lose touch with your relationship and yourselves, so why not just take time out.
Make one night of the week ‘Date night’! There should be no talk of the wedding plans on this night. The word ‘wedding’ and any wedding related topics should be strictly forbidden.
Having this time together should not only help relieve personal stress, but allow you to stay connected as a couple and keep things in perspective.
2. Holistic Therapies
Massage therapy, acupuncture, reflexology, Reiki healing, the list goes on. There are so many alternative therapies it’s hard to pick one, but if one of them works for you-do it! A massage is often more affordable than a night out and should leave you feeling rejuvenated as opposed to hung over.
Even if it’s only possible once a month, you’ll feel the benefits, helping you manage physical as well as mental stress.
3. Take a class
Dance classes are usually great fun and a good form of exercise, plus you’ll meet lots of people of all ages. From Salsa to Jive, there are classes out there to suit everyone, however, if shaking your behind once a week doesn’t appeal you can always try something different.
You could take a course in languages. Many colleges and universities run these short courses for various languages.
Providing you don’t take any of these things too seriously they should provide you with fresh stimuli, diverting your attentions on a regular basis and hopefully reducing wedding stress.
4. Regular Exercise
It is a proven fact that one of the best ways to reduce stress is to exercise. Aerobic exercise such as running, walking and swimming can help to control stress levels. Research also shows that people who exercise regularly will suffer less from anxiety and depression than comparable people who are not aerobically fit.
Experts recommend that we exercise 3-4 times a week for at least 20 minutes per session. Try it out! You may soon start feeling the difference in yourself.
Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. You can integrate it into your normal daily routine, i.e. walk to the shop to buy milk, and walk to work twice a week. This way you are more likely to commit to exercise.
If not managed properly stress can get out of hand and lead to serious problems. The planning of your wedding should be an enjoyable part of the whole experience, so don’t let stress manage you.
Manage stress and enjoy the ride!
Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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If the answer is yes to more than 3 of these questions, then chances are you’re suffering from stress.
Most of us have a broad sense of what stress is and how it can positively or negatively affect our lives; however, many of us choose to ignore the build up, until something significant occurs.
In Psychology marriage is considered to be a significant life change. Research by Holmes and Rahe (1967) lead to the development of the ‘Social readjustment rating scale’. The Scale ranked and weighted life events with regard to the amount of stress a person experiences at a given period of time.
Out of 43 life events ‘marriage’ was ranked in the top 20%, higher than ‘pregnancy’, ‘Fired from work’ and even ‘death of a close friend’.
So there it is! Empirical evidence shows us how it is extremely common to be stressed out of our minds when it comes to getting married.
If you don’t want to go down the route of a nervous breakdown, here are a few handy suggestions:
1. Make a date
Planning a wedding can place considerable strain on your relationship. As the wedding date grows nearer more and more emphasis tends to be placed on the event, drawing your attentions away from each other. It is very easy to lose touch with your relationship and yourselves, so why not just take time out.
Make one night of the week ‘Date night’! There should be no talk of the wedding plans on this night. The word ‘wedding’ and any wedding related topics should be strictly forbidden.
Having this time together should not only help relieve personal stress, but allow you to stay connected as a couple and keep things in perspective.
2. Holistic Therapies
Massage therapy, acupuncture, reflexology, Reiki healing, the list goes on. There are so many alternative therapies it’s hard to pick one, but if one of them works for you-do it! A massage is often more affordable than a night out and should leave you feeling rejuvenated as opposed to hung over.
Even if it’s only possible once a month, you’ll feel the benefits, helping you manage physical as well as mental stress.
3. Take a class
Dance classes are usually great fun and a good form of exercise, plus you’ll meet lots of people of all ages. From Salsa to Jive, there are classes out there to suit everyone, however, if shaking your behind once a week doesn’t appeal you can always try something different.
You could take a course in languages. Many colleges and universities run these short courses for various languages.
Providing you don’t take any of these things too seriously they should provide you with fresh stimuli, diverting your attentions on a regular basis and hopefully reducing wedding stress.
4. Regular Exercise
It is a proven fact that one of the best ways to reduce stress is to exercise. Aerobic exercise such as running, walking and swimming can help to control stress levels. Research also shows that people who exercise regularly will suffer less from anxiety and depression than comparable people who are not aerobically fit.
Experts recommend that we exercise 3-4 times a week for at least 20 minutes per session. Try it out! You may soon start feeling the difference in yourself.
Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. You can integrate it into your normal daily routine, i.e. walk to the shop to buy milk, and walk to work twice a week. This way you are more likely to commit to exercise.
If not managed properly stress can get out of hand and lead to serious problems. The planning of your wedding should be an enjoyable part of the whole experience, so don’t let stress manage you.
Manage stress and enjoy the ride!
Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/18/06
Thank You Notes Wedding Etiquette
Well you're getting married and the gifts are starting to roll in. It is now time to start showing your gratitude by sending Thank-You notes.
Here are some tips to help you get started.
1. Gifts received before the wedding should be acknowledged with a thank-you card within two weeks.
2. Professionally printed thank-you notes may look nice but they are not absolutely necessary. Store bought cards will be fine. Do not use cards with generic preprinted messages inside.
3. Always specifically mention the gift you received in the note. For example: Thank you so much for the lovely bath towels. They match our new bathroom tiles perfectly.
4. If you receive a cash gift, the thank-you should state how you plan to use the money. For example: Thank you for the generous gift. We are planning on buying a new dining set soon and your gift will help us do so.
5. Presents received on your wedding day or soon after should be acknowledged within two months. However, the sooner you send your notes the better. Remember - People expect a prompt thank-you from you, the longer you wait, the less they will think of you.
6. Write your thank-you notes as you receive the gifts. Try to squeeze in several minutes each day to write a few notes. If you wait to write them all at once, it will become a huge job and could possibly take you most of the day.
7. Buy a notebook and keep a record of every gift you receive. Put a check mark next to each name as you write your notes.
8. Don't open any gifts you receive by mail (including cards) until you have your gift list in front of you so you can record it immediately. This is a good idea as it is very easy to misplace an envelope.
9. Be especially diligent about thanking people who sends gifts by mail. They not only want to be thanked, but they need to know you received their gift.
10. Be thankful for any gifts you receive - regardless of how small. Even if you don't like the gift you need to show appreciation and send a note. NEVER let the gift giver know you exchanged his/her gift.
11. Party Hosts
Don't forget to send a thank-you to anyone who hosted a party for you-engagement, bridal etc. This note should be sent the day after the party.
12. Friends and Family
There will likely be special people who went out of their way to help you plan your wedding, from attendants who ran errands, to a neighbor who helped you address envelopes. These acts of kindness should be acknowledged with a note of thanks.
13. Parents
Last but not least, don't forget to send your parents (and in-laws) a note of appreciation along with a small gift (optional) for all of their love and support.
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Here are some tips to help you get started.
1. Gifts received before the wedding should be acknowledged with a thank-you card within two weeks.
2. Professionally printed thank-you notes may look nice but they are not absolutely necessary. Store bought cards will be fine. Do not use cards with generic preprinted messages inside.
3. Always specifically mention the gift you received in the note. For example: Thank you so much for the lovely bath towels. They match our new bathroom tiles perfectly.
4. If you receive a cash gift, the thank-you should state how you plan to use the money. For example: Thank you for the generous gift. We are planning on buying a new dining set soon and your gift will help us do so.
5. Presents received on your wedding day or soon after should be acknowledged within two months. However, the sooner you send your notes the better. Remember - People expect a prompt thank-you from you, the longer you wait, the less they will think of you.
6. Write your thank-you notes as you receive the gifts. Try to squeeze in several minutes each day to write a few notes. If you wait to write them all at once, it will become a huge job and could possibly take you most of the day.
7. Buy a notebook and keep a record of every gift you receive. Put a check mark next to each name as you write your notes.
8. Don't open any gifts you receive by mail (including cards) until you have your gift list in front of you so you can record it immediately. This is a good idea as it is very easy to misplace an envelope.
9. Be especially diligent about thanking people who sends gifts by mail. They not only want to be thanked, but they need to know you received their gift.
10. Be thankful for any gifts you receive - regardless of how small. Even if you don't like the gift you need to show appreciation and send a note. NEVER let the gift giver know you exchanged his/her gift.
11. Party Hosts
Don't forget to send a thank-you to anyone who hosted a party for you-engagement, bridal etc. This note should be sent the day after the party.
12. Friends and Family
There will likely be special people who went out of their way to help you plan your wedding, from attendants who ran errands, to a neighbor who helped you address envelopes. These acts of kindness should be acknowledged with a note of thanks.
13. Parents
Last but not least, don't forget to send your parents (and in-laws) a note of appreciation along with a small gift (optional) for all of their love and support.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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8/16/06
Printing Options For Wedding Invitations
Did you know when it comes to ordering your wedding invitations, the type of print you choose is a big factor in the cost?
Here is a list of the common types of print you will find when you visit your printer.
Engraving
This is the most traditional for of printing. It is also the most expensive. An engraved invitation has raised lettering on the front which is pressed through so you can feel it on the pack of the paper. Engraving is usually used for very formal invitations.
Thermography
This is a good alternative to the costly engraving print. You'll get the look of engraving for half of the cost.
A thermographed invitation has raised lettering that is shinier than engraved print and does not press through the back of the paper.
Lithography (Off Set Printing)
This type of invitation is printed with ink but does not have raised lettering. It is less costly than either engraving or thermography.
Laser
If you're on a tight budget this is a great idea. Invitations can be produced on a laser printer, either at a professional print shop or at home. The result should be very similar to that produced by lithography.
If you are a creative person and want to make your own invitations, here are some tips to keep in mind:
Here is a list of the common types of print you will find when you visit your printer.
Engraving
This is the most traditional for of printing. It is also the most expensive. An engraved invitation has raised lettering on the front which is pressed through so you can feel it on the pack of the paper. Engraving is usually used for very formal invitations.
Thermography
This is a good alternative to the costly engraving print. You'll get the look of engraving for half of the cost.
A thermographed invitation has raised lettering that is shinier than engraved print and does not press through the back of the paper.
Lithography (Off Set Printing)
This type of invitation is printed with ink but does not have raised lettering. It is less costly than either engraving or thermography.
Laser
If you're on a tight budget this is a great idea. Invitations can be produced on a laser printer, either at a professional print shop or at home. The result should be very similar to that produced by lithography.
If you are a creative person and want to make your own invitations, here are some tips to keep in mind:
- Buy high quality blank invitation forms.(Don't forget to buy some extras for practice!)
- Choose a typeface that is formal, crisp, and easy to read to make it look like professionally produced print.
- Be very careful that the invitations are fed through the printer straight and evenly.
Calligraphy - Handwritten
If you are having a small intimate wedding or want to personalize your invitations a handwritten invitation on lovely stationery is a nice idea.
Handwritten invitations can be used for a formal or informal wedding.
You can hire a calligrapher if you do not have beautiful handwriting.
If you cannot afford to hire a calligrapher, a visit to you local printer can solve this problem. Most printers are now able to reproduce handwritten calligraphy using special software for half the price of a professional calligrapher.Fun sites:
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine :)
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Choosing Your Wedding Ceremony Music
Planning the music for your wedding ceremony can present many challenges. Here are some frequently asked questions and answers.
What Is the "Liturgy"?
The Liturgy refers to the Order of Worship within a religious service. Each denomination has its own liturgy, which is comprised of readings from scripture or poetry, musical interludes, a sermon/homily, prayers, offertory and exchange of vows and rings.
How Many Songs Will I Need?
This will depend on the length of the service and where you would like the music to be placed. The most common number is between 2 and 3 pieces before the service and 3 and 5 during. Sometimes more songs are needed depending on how elaborate a service you are planning.
Where Should the Songs Be Placed in the Service?
You will need a processional (entrance music, usually instrumental), and a recessional (exit music, usually instrumental). Other selections will depend on the order of the service. It is common to have prelude music before the service (either vocal and/or instrumental) and between readings to add variety and flow. You may also want a song right after the sermon or your exchange of vows and rings. If you choose to have a unity candle lighting, a brief song is also appropriate. All of this will depend on the order of the service.
For Christian services, you may choose to have a song during offertory and communion. Traditionally for Catholic Masses, the parts of the Mass are sung as well.
How Long Can the Songs Be?
You will want to consider the length of the song before determining where it occurs in the service. A song that is too long can make the service drag. One that is too short may lose impact and meaning.
Examples of song length:
Between Readings: 2 to 3 minutes
After Exchange of Vows: 2 to 3 minutes
During Unity Candle: 1 or 2 minutes
Offertory: 2 to 3 minutes
Communion: 5 to 7 minutes or 2 shorter pieces
Are the Lyrics Appropriate for My Wedding Ceremony?
It is important to review the lyrics of a song to be sure they are appropriate for you and if they capture the essence of your celebration. This is a very personal choice. However, there are many pop songs one may enjoy, but which may not be fitting for a religious ceremony. Just as there may be a beautiful song with a religious message that may not fit well in a non-religious ceremony. Again this is a very personal matter.
Are There Certain Restrictions Placed on the Music by the Clergy?
The Clergy of many churches feel it is important to maintain the sacredness and solmenity of the ceremony by setting parameters on music selection. Many parishes will provide guidelines for you. On the other hand, there are clergy who are more lenient and place no restrictions. It is recommended that you discuss this with your Pastor or Celebrant first.
Do I have to hire an organist?
Most churches and synagogues have a resident organist. If you choose to use instrumentation in addition to or in place of the organist, you will need to discuss the terms with that person. If no organist is provided, I will be happy to provide one for your ceremony.
What type of ensemble should I use?
In addition to having a vocalist with organ accompaniment, there is a variety of ensembles to choose from. Some popular combinations are listed below:
Voice + String Trio
Voice + String Quartet
Voice + Harp
Voice + Harp and Flute
Voice + Guitar
Voice + Guitar and Flute
Voice + Organ and Trumpet
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Until Next Time!
Monica Hatch is a vocalist with 20+ years experience and has sung for over 300 wedding ceremonies and dozens of receptions. Her styles range from the classics to the modern. She works with each couple individually to simplify the sometimes difficult and confusing music selection process
What Is the "Liturgy"?
The Liturgy refers to the Order of Worship within a religious service. Each denomination has its own liturgy, which is comprised of readings from scripture or poetry, musical interludes, a sermon/homily, prayers, offertory and exchange of vows and rings.
How Many Songs Will I Need?
This will depend on the length of the service and where you would like the music to be placed. The most common number is between 2 and 3 pieces before the service and 3 and 5 during. Sometimes more songs are needed depending on how elaborate a service you are planning.
Where Should the Songs Be Placed in the Service?
You will need a processional (entrance music, usually instrumental), and a recessional (exit music, usually instrumental). Other selections will depend on the order of the service. It is common to have prelude music before the service (either vocal and/or instrumental) and between readings to add variety and flow. You may also want a song right after the sermon or your exchange of vows and rings. If you choose to have a unity candle lighting, a brief song is also appropriate. All of this will depend on the order of the service.
For Christian services, you may choose to have a song during offertory and communion. Traditionally for Catholic Masses, the parts of the Mass are sung as well.
How Long Can the Songs Be?
You will want to consider the length of the song before determining where it occurs in the service. A song that is too long can make the service drag. One that is too short may lose impact and meaning.
Examples of song length:
Between Readings: 2 to 3 minutes
After Exchange of Vows: 2 to 3 minutes
During Unity Candle: 1 or 2 minutes
Offertory: 2 to 3 minutes
Communion: 5 to 7 minutes or 2 shorter pieces
Are the Lyrics Appropriate for My Wedding Ceremony?
It is important to review the lyrics of a song to be sure they are appropriate for you and if they capture the essence of your celebration. This is a very personal choice. However, there are many pop songs one may enjoy, but which may not be fitting for a religious ceremony. Just as there may be a beautiful song with a religious message that may not fit well in a non-religious ceremony. Again this is a very personal matter.
Are There Certain Restrictions Placed on the Music by the Clergy?
The Clergy of many churches feel it is important to maintain the sacredness and solmenity of the ceremony by setting parameters on music selection. Many parishes will provide guidelines for you. On the other hand, there are clergy who are more lenient and place no restrictions. It is recommended that you discuss this with your Pastor or Celebrant first.
Do I have to hire an organist?
Most churches and synagogues have a resident organist. If you choose to use instrumentation in addition to or in place of the organist, you will need to discuss the terms with that person. If no organist is provided, I will be happy to provide one for your ceremony.
What type of ensemble should I use?
In addition to having a vocalist with organ accompaniment, there is a variety of ensembles to choose from. Some popular combinations are listed below:
Voice + String Trio
Voice + String Quartet
Voice + Harp
Voice + Harp and Flute
Voice + Guitar
Voice + Guitar and Flute
Voice + Organ and Trumpet
Fun Site:
Create your own wedding Website (Click here for a Free Trial)
Until Next Time!
Jasmine
Monica Hatch is a vocalist with 20+ years experience and has sung for over 300 wedding ceremonies and dozens of receptions. Her styles range from the classics to the modern. She works with each couple individually to simplify the sometimes difficult and confusing music selection process
8/15/06
Top Ten Ways to Look Like a Model Bride
How do models always manage to look picture-perfect? Get their secrets from a real model! Model and stylist Lori Dunn gives you tips on how to look drop-dead wedding day gorgeous. She's got the skinny on how to get your skin ready, how to pose for pictures, and more!
Six months to a year before the wedding
Start researching and experimenting with different hair and makeup styles to create your individual wedding day look. If you plan on using a stylist, make a consultation appointment and bring lots of pictures of looks you love. Agree on a style that you're sure matches your gown and your personality.
Eight weeks before the big day
Use microdermabrasion or glycolic peels once a month for two months prior, to give your skin a flawless, smooth surface for makeup and a rich glow. Set up a skin care routine to ensure that your skin will be looking its best for your wedding day.
A month before the big day
Exfoliate your body daily with a loofah and/or body scrub to maintain shiny, healthy skin all over (if you're going strapless, concentrate on your arms, shoulders, and back). For flaky lips, exfoliate by brushing them gently with a soft tooth brush.
Three weeks before the big day
See your stylist to get a final trim (remember, nothing drastic!) and consider adding some highlights. Perfectly placed highlights add an instant glow to your face.
Two weeks before the big day
Gather your products to make sure you have everything you could possibly need. The key to picture-ready makeup is a set of professional makeup brushes. Then, when applying your makeup, blend, blend, blend!
On the big day
For the longest lasting lip color that won't move through all that kissing and smiling, apply foundation over lips. Then line with a lip liner, then apply lip color with a lip brush.
For strappy shoes that won't stay put, use wig tape (it's clear and super-sticky) to the back part of the strap, adhering them to your foot.
To eliminate blinking in all your gorgeous wedding photos, use this tip: relax your eyes before the shot by looking down. Then, when the photographer says, "cheese", look up just as the picture is being taken.
To create a thinner line in your photos, angle your body slightly toward the camera. Never stand facing the camera straight on.
Don't be afraid to glam it up: it's your only wedding day, so don't forget to get glamorous! Use some sparkly additions you wouldn't normally wear, like false lashes or hair extensions. Remember, all eyes will be on you and you want to look spectacular!
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Until next time!
Jasmine
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8/14/06
Wedding Planning Timeline
Congratulations on your engagement. Now it's time to go to work and plan the wedding of your dreams. With a little preparation (and a sense of Humor!) there is no need to act like a bridezilla.
Here is a checklist to help you keep your sanity.
9-12 Months before the wedding
Here is a checklist to help you keep your sanity.
9-12 Months before the wedding
- Announce your engagement.
- Plan what type of wedding you want- formal, informal, day or evening, number of guests
- Choose a wedding date.
- Determine your budget- Discuss who is responsible for what expenses before making any plans. You should include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion. Remember to treat them with respect. Any money they provide is a gift!
- Make guest list - Don't forget to include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion.
- Speak to officiant- Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Justice of the Peace etc.
- Reserve your ceremony and Reception Sites.
6-9 Months Before Wedding
- Select Bridal Gown
- Choose your attendants- Maid/Matron of honor, Best Man, Bridesmaids, Ushers, flowergirls, and Ring Bearer
- Choose a Photographer
- Select bridesmaids dresses & accessories (Remember to be Kind and listen to their suggestions and concerns).
- Select a caterer (if needed)
- Hire a band or DJ
- Book your florist
4-5 Months Before Wedding
- Schedule fittings for yourself and attendants (don't forget your flower-girl)
- Reserve any rental items needed for ceremony and reception
- Finalize guest list
- Order Stationery - wedding invitations, thank you notes, and wedding programs
- Address invitations or hire a professional calligrapher
- Plan rehearsal dinner - set date, time and location. This dinner is usually given by the grooms' parents.
- Arrange for accommodations for out-of-town guests.
- Start planning honeymoon (Groom usually makes these arrangements after you BOTH decide where to go.) Don't forget to get any passports or travel documents you may need.
- Register for gifts.
- Purchase shoes and accessories (Remember to break your shoes in before the wedding)
2-3 Months Before Wedding
- Order wedding cake
- Order party favors
- Order all necessary decorations
- Book all transportation for wedding day (if necessary)
- Buy wedding rings
- Visit lawyer to write any necessary wills or prenuptial agreements
6-8 Weeks Before Wedding
- Purchase gifts for wedding attendants
- Mail invitations (A map to assist your guests in finding the ceremony and reception sites is a nice idea).
- Visit hairstylist to determine what style you want for your hair. (Hint: Never change haircolor or change your style right before your wedding. Any changes should be made at least 3-4 weeks in advance).
- Have a formal wedding portrait taken
- Send wedding announcements to newspapers (if necessary)
- Change name and address on driver's license, social security cards, insurance policies, and bank accounts
- Reserve wedding attire for groom, ushers, ring bearer (Usually done by the groom).
- Mail invitations to rehearsal dinner (if necessary)
- Obtain marriage license
- Get blood tests if necessary in your state
- Plan a bridesmaid luncheon
2-6 Weeks Before Wedding
- Confirm ceremony details with officiant
- Arrange final fittings for your gown and bridesmaids dresses
- Make final floral selections
- Finalize rehearsal dinner plans
- Confirm details with all service providers - It is a good idea to give them a written list of your wedding day timeline.
- Contact guests who have not yet responded
- Pick up wedding rings
- Meet with your photographer to discuss special photos you want taken.
- Meet with your DJ or band to confirm the music you want played
- Remind all attendants (male & female) when to pick up their wedding attire.
- Purchase any special accessories or make-up you want your attendants to wear.
- Determine ceremony seating for any special guest (give the list to the ushers).
- Plan reception seating-write names on place cards.
Hold On....Your Almost Done! Last Week
- Pick up wedding attire
- Figure final guest count and notify cater
- Arrange for "get-a-way" car from the reception
- Review the schedule of events and last minute arrangements with all service providers.
- Confirm honeymoon reservations
- Pack for your honeymoon
Take a Breath.....It's Finally Here....Your Wedding Day!!!!
- Give rings to the best man and maid of honor (If no ring Bearer)
- give the best man money to pay the officiant after the ceremony
- Relax and have fun!!! All your hard work and planning has paid off.
Until Next time!
Jasmine
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8/13/06
Alcohol and Your Wedding Reception
One of the main decisions a couple has to make when planning a wedding is whether to not to serve alcohol at their reception. Your budget and moral beliefs should play a major role in that decision.
You can also limit the time the bar is opened. A reception generally lasts about four hours so you could offer a bar for the first two to three hours. After that time you will only serve soft drinks and coffee. This will not only save you money but will also allow your guests time to sober up before driving home.
Unlimited Budget
If money is not a major concern, why not offer your guests a full open bar. A full bar is stocked with a full range of beverages. The bar consists of wine, beer, mixed drinks, and soft drinks. With an open bar you pay the entire bill. (Very expensive!)
Hint: Do not have waiters/waitresses serve drinks to your guests. If the people have to go to the bar for their own drinks, they will likely drink less; therefore saving you money!
No Alcohol
If you decide not to serve alcohol at your reception, that is quite alright. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Your guests do not need to drink to have fun.
You can serve your guests soft drinks and coffee. For your wedding toast you can offer a small glass of champagne or fruit punch.
Remember to stick to your budget when planning your reception. You certainly do not want too to start you new life in debt!
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Jasmine
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8/11/06
Professional Advice: Wedding Day Hairdos and Don'ts
When couples go over their list of priorities for wedding planning, their appearance probably ranks very highly among other items such as booking the ceremony, finding a reception site and picking out wedding bands. While attire that fits your frame and personality can enhance your best assets, also keep in mind that the right wedding-day hairstyle is key to completing the look.
For help finding the right style, consult a professional stylist who has years of experience creating beautiful wedding-day looks. To get you started, here is some advice from Damian Carney, international artistic director of hair-product manufacturer Joico, who offers these dos and don'ts for wedding day style.
DO consider the entire picture, which includes a style that fits the theme of your wedding and is cohesive with the rest of your look. When you've come up with a theme - i.e. classic, contemporary, casual, etc.- discuss your plans with your stylist. He or she can suggest hairstyles that will complement the theme you'd like to achieve.
DON'T feel you have to emulate everything you see in bridal magazines. If the look of the moment is free-flowing tresses, but you prefer a sleek, tight bun, go with what you like. Your stylist can offer variations, such as escaped tendrils or pins and other accessories to add distinct appeal.
DO highlight your personality. Although you want to look radiant and special on your wedding day, don't wear a hairstyle that isn't "you." In other words, if you're known for your pixie cut, don't feel the need to grow out your locks just because you'll have more style possibilities. Similarly, don't fight what nature gave you. Embrace your ringlet curls, rather than trying to flatten them out for your wedding. Understandably, you will want to look special on your wedding day, but take care to ensure that you are recognizable when you walk down the aisle.
DON'T compete with your gown. The lines and flow of your gown should be paralleled with the lines of your hairstyle. A simple, sheath gown works well with a tailored upswept chignon, while a princess gown with lots of tulle may work better with long, cascading waves.
DO practice your look prior to your wedding. Set up a rehearsal with your stylist and finalize your style. Take a photo so that he or she will have it for reference. This is your big day, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion and say what works for you and what doesn't. Ultimately, styling decisions are up to you, so don't feel pressured to go the way your stylist suggests.
DON'T leave your wedding day hairdo to chance. The right products, like those from Joico, can help keep your style looking beautiful throughout the day, with minimal retouching. To give hair a volume boost, texture and shine, consider AMPLIFIER® Volumizing Mousse that holds without weighing down hair. For dramatic looks and shine, Gripper Spray Wax allows you to create hair artistry. And to tame flyaways and frizz while imparting a lustrous shine to hair, rely on Silk Result Instant Smoother.
DO make sure the groom-to-be takes grooming and haircare seriously as well. A haircut and style schedule a few weeks prior to the wedding will ensure his hair is in prime shape for wedding photo opportunities.
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For help finding the right style, consult a professional stylist who has years of experience creating beautiful wedding-day looks. To get you started, here is some advice from Damian Carney, international artistic director of hair-product manufacturer Joico, who offers these dos and don'ts for wedding day style.
DO consider the entire picture, which includes a style that fits the theme of your wedding and is cohesive with the rest of your look. When you've come up with a theme - i.e. classic, contemporary, casual, etc.- discuss your plans with your stylist. He or she can suggest hairstyles that will complement the theme you'd like to achieve.
DON'T feel you have to emulate everything you see in bridal magazines. If the look of the moment is free-flowing tresses, but you prefer a sleek, tight bun, go with what you like. Your stylist can offer variations, such as escaped tendrils or pins and other accessories to add distinct appeal.
DO highlight your personality. Although you want to look radiant and special on your wedding day, don't wear a hairstyle that isn't "you." In other words, if you're known for your pixie cut, don't feel the need to grow out your locks just because you'll have more style possibilities. Similarly, don't fight what nature gave you. Embrace your ringlet curls, rather than trying to flatten them out for your wedding. Understandably, you will want to look special on your wedding day, but take care to ensure that you are recognizable when you walk down the aisle.
DON'T compete with your gown. The lines and flow of your gown should be paralleled with the lines of your hairstyle. A simple, sheath gown works well with a tailored upswept chignon, while a princess gown with lots of tulle may work better with long, cascading waves.
DO practice your look prior to your wedding. Set up a rehearsal with your stylist and finalize your style. Take a photo so that he or she will have it for reference. This is your big day, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion and say what works for you and what doesn't. Ultimately, styling decisions are up to you, so don't feel pressured to go the way your stylist suggests.
DON'T leave your wedding day hairdo to chance. The right products, like those from Joico, can help keep your style looking beautiful throughout the day, with minimal retouching. To give hair a volume boost, texture and shine, consider AMPLIFIER® Volumizing Mousse that holds without weighing down hair. For dramatic looks and shine, Gripper Spray Wax allows you to create hair artistry. And to tame flyaways and frizz while imparting a lustrous shine to hair, rely on Silk Result Instant Smoother.
DO make sure the groom-to-be takes grooming and haircare seriously as well. A haircut and style schedule a few weeks prior to the wedding will ensure his hair is in prime shape for wedding photo opportunities.
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine
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Should I Have a Prenuptial Agreement?
Although a Prenuptial Agreement doesn't sound very romantic, it is something you and your fiance may want to consider before you walk down the isle.
Prenuptial agreements are no longer only for wealthy people trying to protect their assets. Nor are they only for second marriages where both spouses have homes and other assets they want to protect for their children's inheritance. Today many couples are entering marriages with real estate, and pension plans they want to hold onto in case the marriage doesn't work out.
Here are some tips you may want to consider when preparing your agreement:
Prenuptial agreements are no longer only for wealthy people trying to protect their assets. Nor are they only for second marriages where both spouses have homes and other assets they want to protect for their children's inheritance. Today many couples are entering marriages with real estate, and pension plans they want to hold onto in case the marriage doesn't work out.
Here are some tips you may want to consider when preparing your agreement:
1. Be positive-A prenuptial agreement does not mean that your future spouse does not love or trust you. Many couples with agreements have long and happy marriages.
2. Both partners should have their own lawyers
3. Discuss with your fiance what you want the agreement to cover before you head to your respective lawyer's office.
4. NEVER involve family or friends unless the agreement pertains to them.
What should I put in my agreement?
Don't sweat the small stuff such as TV's and computers. Focus on the main issues:
1. Present Investments- stocks, bonds, real estate,
2. Iraq's, 401k's, and family trust funds
3. Family Business- If you own a business or expect to inherit one, you might want to specify that these things will not be considered marital property.
4. You may want to specify that any family heirlooms you own (or expect to) such as, jewelry, or antiques will remain in the family should you divorce.
5. If either or both of you have children and personal assets, your agreement should protect each child.
6. Any future inheritances you expect to receive should also be protected. Your agreement should specify that these items are outside the marital property.
7. Some couples even include lifestyle issues in their agreement such as children, how to handle savings, and even household tasks. Although lifestyle issues probably will not hold up in a court of law, it may be beneficial to write down your expectations about your life together to make sure you and your future spouse are compatible.
- Recommended Readings Prenups for Lovers: A Romantic Guide to Prenuptial Agreements (Click Here)
Prenuptial Agreements: How to Write a Fair and Lasting Contract (Click Here)
Until next time!
Jasmine
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