Tips on Cutting Your Wedding Costs

The most important thing you must consider when planning a wedding is your budget. With the following cost cutting tips you can have a beautiful wedding without going into debt.

1.Create your own invitations
With a little practice you can create professional looking invitations. Buy high quality blank invitation forms. Make sure to use a typeface that is formal, crisp and easy to read for professional-looking results.

2. Gowns
Save money on your Wedding gown and Bridesmaid dresses by shopping at a bridal discount outlets. If alterations are necessary, take the dresses to a local seamstress. If you need a bridal gown slip, rent it rather than buy it.

3. Limit your attendants to Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man. You will save money on clothing, gifts, and food costs at the rehearsal dinner.

4. Get married in the morning: afternoon and evening weddings are more expensive.

5. For an indoor wedding consider having your reception at a restaurant. Most charge less than a hotel or country club. Plus restaurants do not charge room fees like many facilities.

6. Consider having your reception at a park or public garden rather than an expensive hall. Most public parks are free or charge a small fee.

7. Cut Reception Food Costs
Limit the number of guests to those you really want there. (Remember caterer's charge per person).

Forego the multi-course dinner in favor of a brunch, luncheon, a dessert reception, or even a cocktail party.

8. Cut Bar Reception Costs
Serve only beer, wine, and soft drinks. Do not offer mixed drinks. By eliminating mixed drinks you may be able to cut your bar bill in half.

Consider offering a full bar for the first hour or two and then switch to a cash bar.
Do not have waiters/waitresses serve the guest drinks. If a people have to actually go get their own drinks, they will probably drink less, therefore saving you money.

9. Party Favors
You can save hundreds of dollars by eliminating the party favors. If you absolutely want favors, why not make your own? How about buying bags of Hershey kisses and wrapping a few into a small piece of organza cloth and tying it with a cute ribbon.

Forego the printed napkins and matches to save even more money. Also, do you really need a gold embossed guest book? Probably not! Why not purchase a nice guest book at your local stationery store.

10. Wedding Cake
Wedding cakes can be very expensive. To save money on your cake contact a nearby college that offers cooking classes for referrals. A recent Graduate can make you a gorgeous cake a lot cheaper than a professional baker.

To really save money on your cake you could consider using a display cake (A dummy Styrofoam cake) for the display table. A display cake will look exactly like a real cake and your guests would never know the difference. Since you do not have a real cake your caterer can serve guests slices of sheet cake which costs a fraction of the cost of wedding cake.

11. Music
Hire a DJ rather than a live band. If you want live music, visit the music department at your local college for referrals. There are many talented music students who would gladly play at your wedding.

12. Flowers
Why not make your own bouquet? Buy a pretty bouquet of flowers or pick wild flowers and tie them together with wire. Then wrap the wire with a pretty ribbon. (Hint: Roses are not good flowers for bouquets as they fall apart rather easily).

If you want to purchase a professional bouquet, remember to always use flowers in season to save money.

Rather than purchase expensive boutonnieres for the men, why not pin a single flower to the jacket lapel.

13. Table Displays
You do not need expensive flower table displays for your reception. Why not put pretty flowers in a small vase on each table. All the vases do not have to match. In fact, it can look striking if you use a different vase and flower on each table.

Rather than flowers, decorate each table with candles. Here are some tips:

• Buy some candles and tie ribbons around them then slip a single flower inside the ribbon. Keep the ribbon long and let it cascade down to the table.
• Put a couple of floating candles in a clear glass bowl along with a few fresh flower heads. You can buy a plant like a Chrysanthemum for a couple of dollars and cut the flowers off.
• Votive candles on top of a mirror makes a romantic centerpiece for an evening reception.

14. Photographer

Hiring a professional photographer/videographer is very expensive. Consider asking a photographer friend to do the honors( Perhaps as a wedding present).

If you want professional photos, consider hiring a photographer for the formal shots of your ceremony only. Then place disposable cameras on every table. Not only will your guests have fun, but you'll get dozens of photographs as momentos at very little cost.

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Remember a Loved One at Your Wedding

It's your wedding day, and you can't imagine having it without someone you loved dearly. Here are some ideas for a memorial candle ceremony.

Light a Memorial Candle
Provide a second table at the altar or near the front of the church. On it, place a Memorial Candle in tribute to your loved ones.

Ask your officiant to include them at the beginning of the candle-lighting ceremony. For example, "Before (Bride) and (Groom) light a candle to symbolize their union, they will light a candle in honor of (Loved One), whom they dearly miss, and who they know is present with them here today."

Then, light the Memorial Candle, ask the officiant to say a prayer, then move to the altar to light your Unity Candle.

Light Taper Candles In Memorium
It is traditional to have one or both parents light the individual tapers for their children before the bride and groom light the Unity Candle. If one or both of your parents is deceased, the bride or groom can light the taper and ask the officiant to acknowledge the act before the Unity Candle is lit.

You may also think of using candelabras, and having sisters, brothers, or other family members light a candle for each relative that is no longer with you.

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White Gold or Platinum Wedding Band?

Part of the beauty of an engagement is choosing a wedding band. With today’s choices, a couple has far more options than ever before. Yellow gold will always be a timeless classic, but wedding bands, just like the times, are changing. Today’s most popular options are white gold or platinum. There is an assumption that because of the same, shiny, whitish color, both metals are equivalent. However, that could not be further from the truth.

A white gold ring is an alloy of regular gold combined with other metals such as silver and palladium or nickel. Part of what makes white gold look almost identical to platinum is a finishing process that occurs when the ring is being made. The white gold ring is finished with a coating of Rhodium, a metal that shares many of Platinum’s properties. While white gold is naturally a light shade of gray or has a slight yellow tint because of the natural color of gold, the Rhodium coating gives the completed ring a sparkly white color.

The main downfall to a white gold ring is that without proper care, the Rhodium will eventually wear off and change the color of the ring. With proper replatement every 1-3 years, the rhodium will stay lustrous and the ring beautiful.

Platinum differs from gold because it is used almost entirely in its pure form when making a platinum wedding band, as opposed to being combined with different metals. Platinum rings do not need to be treated with Rhodium because the natural color of platinum is the desired shining white.

Platinum is a good material to choose if you are harder on things, or constantly on the go, because it wears longer. It is a heavier, denser metal, which allows it to be more scratch-resistant than white gold.

The downside is that platinum, because it is not mixed to make up the composition of the wedding band, tends to be far more expensive. The normal guideline when shopping for rings is to expect a platinum wedding band to be up to two to four times more expensive than its white gold counterpart, depending on the complexity of the design and the weight (gold or platinum content) of the wedding ring.

To see a sample of a white gold or platinum wedding band, online wedding band stores are an excellent resource. Online jewelers and other wedding jewelers offer an excellent way of researching or shopping for your perfect wedding ring! Regardless of your choice of metal, both white gold and platinum make for a beautiful wedding band.

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Four Sure Cures To Prenuptial Stress

• Arguing with your fiancé more than normal? • Finding it increasingly difficult to make decisions? • Finding it increasingly difficult to focus on a task? • Minor things irritating you more? • Frequently feeling lethargic? • Having trouble sleeping? • Suffering from headaches?

If the answer is yes to more than 3 of these questions, then chances are you’re suffering from stress.

Most of us have a broad sense of what stress is and how it can positively or negatively affect our lives; however, many of us choose to ignore the build up, until something significant occurs.

In Psychology marriage is considered to be a significant life change. Research by Holmes and Rahe (1967) lead to the development of the ‘Social readjustment rating scale’. The Scale ranked and weighted life events with regard to the amount of stress a person experiences at a given period of time.

Out of 43 life events ‘marriage’ was ranked in the top 20%, higher than ‘pregnancy’, ‘Fired from work’ and even ‘death of a close friend’.

So there it is! Empirical evidence shows us how it is extremely common to be stressed out of our minds when it comes to getting married.

If you don’t want to go down the route of a nervous breakdown, here are a few handy suggestions:

1. Make a date
Planning a wedding can place considerable strain on your relationship. As the wedding date grows nearer more and more emphasis tends to be placed on the event, drawing your attentions away from each other. It is very easy to lose touch with your relationship and yourselves, so why not just take time out.

Make one night of the week ‘Date night’! There should be no talk of the wedding plans on this night. The word ‘wedding’ and any wedding related topics should be strictly forbidden.

Having this time together should not only help relieve personal stress, but allow you to stay connected as a couple and keep things in perspective.

2. Holistic Therapies
Massage therapy, acupuncture, reflexology, Reiki healing, the list goes on. There are so many alternative therapies it’s hard to pick one, but if one of them works for you-do it! A massage is often more affordable than a night out and should leave you feeling rejuvenated as opposed to hung over.

Even if it’s only possible once a month, you’ll feel the benefits, helping you manage physical as well as mental stress.

3. Take a class
Dance classes are usually great fun and a good form of exercise, plus you’ll meet lots of people of all ages. From Salsa to Jive, there are classes out there to suit everyone, however, if shaking your behind once a week doesn’t appeal you can always try something different.

You could take a course in languages. Many colleges and universities run these short courses for various languages.
Providing you don’t take any of these things too seriously they should provide you with fresh stimuli, diverting your attentions on a regular basis and hopefully reducing wedding stress.

4. Regular Exercise
It is a proven fact that one of the best ways to reduce stress is to exercise. Aerobic exercise such as running, walking and swimming can help to control stress levels. Research also shows that people who exercise regularly will suffer less from anxiety and depression than comparable people who are not aerobically fit.

Experts recommend that we exercise 3-4 times a week for at least 20 minutes per session. Try it out! You may soon start feeling the difference in yourself.

Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. You can integrate it into your normal daily routine, i.e. walk to the shop to buy milk, and walk to work twice a week. This way you are more likely to commit to exercise.

If not managed properly stress can get out of hand and lead to serious problems. The planning of your wedding should be an enjoyable part of the whole experience, so don’t let stress manage you.

Manage stress and enjoy the ride!

Until Next Time!
Jasmine


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Thank You Notes Wedding Etiquette

Well you're getting married and the gifts are starting to roll in. It is now time to start showing your gratitude by sending Thank-You notes.

Here are some tips to help you get started.

1. Gifts received before the wedding should be acknowledged with a thank-you card within two weeks.

2. Professionally printed thank-you notes may look nice but they are not absolutely necessary. Store bought cards will be fine. Do not use cards with generic preprinted messages inside.

3. Always specifically mention the gift you received in the note. For example: Thank you so much for the lovely bath towels. They match our new bathroom tiles perfectly.

4. If you receive a cash gift, the thank-you should state how you plan to use the money. For example: Thank you for the generous gift. We are planning on buying a new dining set soon and your gift will help us do so.

5. Presents received on your wedding day or soon after should be acknowledged within two months. However, the sooner you send your notes the better. Remember - People expect a prompt thank-you from you, the longer you wait, the less they will think of you.

6. Write your thank-you notes as you receive the gifts. Try to squeeze in several minutes each day to write a few notes. If you wait to write them all at once, it will become a huge job and could possibly take you most of the day.

7. Buy a notebook and keep a record of every gift you receive. Put a check mark next to each name as you write your notes.

8. Don't open any gifts you receive by mail (including cards) until you have your gift list in front of you so you can record it immediately. This is a good idea as it is very easy to misplace an envelope.

9. Be especially diligent about thanking people who sends gifts by mail. They not only want to be thanked, but they need to know you received their gift.

10. Be thankful for any gifts you receive - regardless of how small. Even if you don't like the gift you need to show appreciation and send a note. NEVER let the gift giver know you exchanged his/her gift.


11. Party Hosts
Don't forget to send a thank-you to anyone who hosted a party for you-engagement, bridal etc. This note should be sent the day after the party.

12. Friends and Family
There will likely be special people who went out of their way to help you plan your wedding, from attendants who ran errands, to a neighbor who helped you address envelopes. These acts of kindness should be acknowledged with a note of thanks.

13. Parents
Last but not least, don't forget to send your parents (and in-laws) a note of appreciation along with a small gift (optional) for all of their love and support.

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Printing Options For Wedding Invitations

Did you know when it comes to ordering your wedding invitations, the type of print you choose is a big factor in the cost?

Here is a list of the common types of print you will find when you visit your printer.

Engraving
This is the most traditional for of printing. It is also the most expensive. An engraved invitation has raised lettering on the front which is pressed through so you can feel it on the pack of the paper. Engraving is usually used for very formal invitations.

Thermography
This is a good alternative to the costly engraving print. You'll get the look of engraving for half of the cost.
A thermographed invitation has raised lettering that is shinier than engraved print and does not press through the back of the paper.

Lithography (Off Set Printing)
This type of invitation is printed with ink but does not have raised lettering. It is less costly than either engraving or thermography.

Laser
If you're on a tight budget this is a great idea. Invitations can be produced on a laser printer, either at a professional print shop or at home. The result should be very similar to that produced by lithography.

If you are a creative person and want to make your own invitations, here are some tips to keep in mind:

1. Buy high quality blank invitation forms.(Don't forget to buy some extras for practice!)
2. Choose a typeface that is formal, crisp, and easy to read to make it look like professionally produced print.
3. Be very careful that the invitations are fed through the printer straight and evenly.

Calligraphy - Handwritten

If you are having a small intimate wedding or want to personalize your invitations a handwritten invitation on lovely stationery is a nice idea.

Handwritten invitations can be used for a formal or informal wedding.

You can hire a calligrapher if you do not have beautiful handwriting.

If you cannot afford to hire a calligrapher, a visit to you local printer can solve this problem. Most printers are now able to reproduce handwritten calligraphy using special software for half the price of a professional calligrapher.

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Choosing Your Wedding Ceremony Music

Planning the music for your wedding ceremony can present many challenges. Here are some frequently asked questions and answers.

What Is the "Liturgy"?
The Liturgy refers to the Order of Worship within a religious service. Each denomination has its own liturgy, which is comprised of readings from scripture or poetry, musical interludes, a sermon/homily, prayers, offertory and exchange of vows and rings.

How Many Songs Will I Need?
This will depend on the length of the service and where you would like the music to be placed. The most common number is between 2 and 3 pieces before the service and 3 and 5 during. Sometimes more songs are needed depending on how elaborate a service you are planning.

Where Should the Songs Be Placed in the Service?
You will need a processional (entrance music, usually instrumental), and a recessional (exit music, usually instrumental). Other selections will depend on the order of the service. It is common to have prelude music before the service (either vocal and/or instrumental) and between readings to add variety and flow. You may also want a song right after the sermon or your exchange of vows and rings. If you choose to have a unity candle lighting, a brief song is also appropriate. All of this will depend on the order of the service.

For Christian services, you may choose to have a song during offertory and communion. Traditionally for Catholic Masses, the parts of the Mass are sung as well.

How Long Can the Songs Be?
You will want to consider the length of the song before determining where it occurs in the service. A song that is too long can make the service drag. One that is too short may lose impact and meaning.

Examples of song length:
Between Readings: 2 to 3 minutes
After Exchange of Vows: 2 to 3 minutes
During Unity Candle: 1 or 2 minutes
Offertory: 2 to 3 minutes
Communion: 5 to 7 minutes or 2 shorter pieces

Are the Lyrics Appropriate for My Wedding Ceremony?
It is important to review the lyrics of a song to be sure they are appropriate for you and if they capture the essence of your celebration. This is a very personal choice. However, there are many pop songs one may enjoy, but which may not be fitting for a religious ceremony. Just as there may be a beautiful song with a religious message that may not fit well in a non-religious ceremony. Again this is a very personal matter.

Are There Certain Restrictions Placed on the Music by the Clergy?
The Clergy of many churches feel it is important to maintain the sacredness and solmenity of the ceremony by setting parameters on music selection. Many parishes will provide guidelines for you. On the other hand, there are clergy who are more lenient and place no restrictions. It is recommended that you discuss this with your Pastor or Celebrant first.

Do I have to hire an organist?
Most churches and synagogues have a resident organist. If you choose to use instrumentation in addition to or in place of the organist, you will need to discuss the terms with that person. If no organist is provided, I will be happy to provide one for your ceremony.

What type of ensemble should I use?
In addition to having a vocalist with organ accompaniment, there is a variety of ensembles to choose from. Some popular combinations are listed below:
Voice + String Trio
Voice + String Quartet
Voice + Harp
Voice + Harp and Flute
Voice + Guitar
Voice + Guitar and Flute
Voice + Organ and Trumpet

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Monica Hatch is a vocalist with 20+ years experience and has sung for over 300 wedding ceremonies and dozens of receptions. Her styles range from the classics to the modern. She works with each couple individually to simplify the sometimes difficult and confusing music selection process

Top Ten Ways to Look Like a Model Bride

How do models always manage to look picture-perfect? Get their secrets from a real model! Model and stylist Lori Dunn gives you tips on how to look drop-dead wedding day gorgeous. She's got the skinny on how to get your skin ready, how to pose for pictures, and more!

Six months to a year before the wedding
Start researching and experimenting with different hair and makeup styles to create your individual wedding day look. If you plan on using a stylist, make a consultation appointment and bring lots of pictures of looks you love. Agree on a style that you're sure matches your gown and your personality.

Eight weeks before the big day
Use microdermabrasion or glycolic peels once a month for two months prior, to give your skin a flawless, smooth surface for makeup and a rich glow. Set up a skin care routine to ensure that your skin will be looking its best for your wedding day.

A month before the big day
Exfoliate your body daily with a loofah and/or body scrub to maintain shiny, healthy skin all over (if you're going strapless, concentrate on your arms, shoulders, and back). For flaky lips, exfoliate by brushing them gently with a soft tooth brush.

Three weeks before the big day
See your stylist to get a final trim (remember, nothing drastic!) and consider adding some highlights. Perfectly placed highlights add an instant glow to your face.

Two weeks before the big day
Gather your products to make sure you have everything you could possibly need. The key to picture-ready makeup is a set of professional makeup brushes. Then, when applying your makeup, blend, blend, blend!

On the big day
For the longest lasting lip color that won't move through all that kissing and smiling, apply foundation over lips. Then line with a lip liner, then apply lip color with a lip brush.

For strappy shoes that won't stay put, use wig tape (it's clear and super-sticky) to the back part of the strap, adhering them to your foot.

To eliminate blinking in all your gorgeous wedding photos, use this tip: relax your eyes before the shot by looking down. Then, when the photographer says, "cheese", look up just as the picture is being taken.

To create a thinner line in your photos, angle your body slightly toward the camera. Never stand facing the camera straight on.

Don't be afraid to glam it up: it's your only wedding day, so don't forget to get glamorous! Use some sparkly additions you wouldn't normally wear, like false lashes or hair extensions. Remember, all eyes will be on you and you want to look spectacular!

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Wedding Planning Timeline

Congratulations on your engagement. Now it's time to go to work and plan the wedding of your dreams. With a little preparation (and a sense of Humor!) there is no need to act like a bridezilla.

Here is a checklist to help you keep your sanity.

9-12 Months before the wedding

• Announce your engagement.
• Plan what type of wedding you want- formal, informal, day or evening, number of guests
• Choose a wedding date.
• Determine your budget- Discuss who is responsible for what expenses before making any plans. You should include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion. Remember to treat them with respect. Any money they provide is a gift!
• Make guest list - Don't forget to include your parents and future in-laws in this discussion.
• Speak to officiant- Priest, Minister, Rabbi, Justice of the Peace etc.
• Reserve your ceremony and Reception Sites.

6-9 Months Before Wedding

• Select Bridal Gown
• Choose your attendants- Maid/Matron of honor, Best Man, Bridesmaids, Ushers, flowergirls, and Ring Bearer
• Choose a Photographer
• Select bridesmaids dresses & accessories (Remember to be Kind and listen to their suggestions and concerns).
• Select a caterer (if needed)
• Hire a band or DJ
• Book your florist

4-5 Months Before Wedding

• Schedule fittings for yourself and attendants (don't forget your flower-girl)
• Reserve any rental items needed for ceremony and reception
• Finalize guest list
• Order Stationery - wedding invitations, thank you notes, and wedding programs
• Address invitations or hire a professional calligrapher
• Plan rehearsal dinner - set date, time and location. This dinner is usually given by the grooms' parents.
• Arrange for accommodations for out-of-town guests.
• Start planning honeymoon (Groom usually makes these arrangements after you BOTH decide where to go.) Don't forget to get any passports or travel documents you may need.
• Register for gifts.
• Purchase shoes and accessories (Remember to break your shoes in before the wedding)

2-3 Months Before Wedding

• Order wedding cake
• Order party favors
• Order all necessary decorations
• Book all transportation for wedding day (if necessary)
• Buy wedding rings
• Visit lawyer to write any necessary wills or prenuptial agreements

6-8 Weeks Before Wedding

• Purchase gifts for wedding attendants
• Mail invitations (A map to assist your guests in finding the ceremony and reception sites is a nice idea).
• Visit hairstylist to determine what style you want for your hair. (Hint: Never change haircolor or change your style right before your wedding. Any changes should be made at least 3-4 weeks in advance).
• Have a formal wedding portrait taken
• Send wedding announcements to newspapers (if necessary)
• Change name and address on driver's license, social security cards, insurance policies, and bank accounts
• Reserve wedding attire for groom, ushers, ring bearer (Usually done by the groom).
• Mail invitations to rehearsal dinner (if necessary)
• Obtain marriage license
• Get blood tests if necessary in your state
• Plan a bridesmaid luncheon

2-6 Weeks Before Wedding

• Confirm ceremony details with officiant
• Arrange final fittings for your gown and bridesmaids dresses
• Make final floral selections
• Finalize rehearsal dinner plans
• Confirm details with all service providers - It is a good idea to give them a written list of your wedding day timeline.
• Contact guests who have not yet responded
• Pick up wedding rings
• Meet with your photographer to discuss special photos you want taken.
• Meet with your DJ or band to confirm the music you want played
• Remind all attendants (male & female) when to pick up their wedding attire.
• Purchase any special accessories or make-up you want your attendants to wear.
• Determine ceremony seating for any special guest (give the list to the ushers).
• Plan reception seating-write names on place cards.

Hold On....Your Almost Done! Last Week

• Pick up wedding attire
• Figure final guest count and notify cater
• Arrange for "get-a-way" car from the reception
• Review the schedule of events and last minute arrangements with all service providers.
• Confirm honeymoon reservations
• Pack for your honeymoon

Take a Breath.....It's Finally Here....Your Wedding Day!!!!

• Give rings to the best man and maid of honor (If no ring Bearer)
• give the best man money to pay the officiant after the ceremony
• Relax and have fun!!! All your hard work and planning has paid off.

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Jasmine

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Alcohol and Your Wedding Reception

One of the main decisions a couple has to make when planning a wedding is whether to not to serve alcohol at their reception. Your budget and moral beliefs should play a major role in that decision.

Here are a number of options and variations you may want to consider.

Limited Budget

If you are on a light budget you can offer your guest a cash bar - where the guests pay for their own drinks. (Hint: If you are offering a cash bar make sure your guests know in advance so they can bring money with them. A simple line that says "No-Host-Bar" on the invitation is a good idea.)

If you don't like the idea of a cash bar, how about putting bottles of wine or champagne on each table rather than offering a bar. Arrange with the caterer to serve free soft drinks and coffee along with the wine.

(Hint to figure out how much wine you need: You should allow one drink per person per hour. A bottle of champagne/wine will usually serve six glasses).

Medium Budget

If money is not too tight you might consider offering a Limited Bar. This is the type of bar which you limit what is served to your guests. You can serve only soft drinks, wine, beer, or a combination of soft drinks and wine, or soft drinks and beer. (Hint: Do not offer mixed drinks as this could double your bar bill.

You can also limit the time the bar is opened. A reception generally lasts about four hours so you could offer a bar for the first two to three hours. After that time you will only serve soft drinks and coffee. This will not only save you money but will also allow your guests time to sober up before driving home.

Unlimited Budget

If money is not a major concern, why not offer your guests a full open bar. A full bar is stocked with a full range of beverages. The bar consists of wine, beer, mixed drinks, and soft drinks. With an open bar you pay the entire bill. (Very expensive!)

Hint: Do not have waiters/waitresses serve drinks to your guests. If the people have to go to the bar for their own drinks, they will likely drink less; therefore saving you money!

No Alcohol

If you decide not to serve alcohol at your reception, that is quite alright. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Your guests do not need to drink to have fun.

You can serve your guests soft drinks and coffee. For your wedding toast you can offer a small glass of champagne or fruit punch.

Remember to stick to your budget when planning your reception. You certainly do not want too to start you new life in debt!

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Professional Advice: Wedding Day Hairdos and Don'ts

When couples go over their list of priorities for wedding planning, their appearance probably ranks very highly among other items such as booking the ceremony, finding a reception site and picking out wedding bands. While attire that fits your frame and personality can enhance your best assets, also keep in mind that the right wedding-day hairstyle is key to completing the look.

For help finding the right style, consult a professional stylist who has years of experience creating beautiful wedding-day looks. To get you started, here is some advice from Damian Carney, international artistic director of hair-product manufacturer Joico, who offers these dos and don'ts for wedding day style.

DO consider the entire picture, which includes a style that fits the theme of your wedding and is cohesive with the rest of your look. When you've come up with a theme - i.e. classic, contemporary, casual, etc.- discuss your plans with your stylist. He or she can suggest hairstyles that will complement the theme you'd like to achieve.

DON'T feel you have to emulate everything you see in bridal magazines. If the look of the moment is free-flowing tresses, but you prefer a sleek, tight bun, go with what you like. Your stylist can offer variations, such as escaped tendrils or pins and other accessories to add distinct appeal.

DO highlight your personality. Although you want to look radiant and special on your wedding day, don't wear a hairstyle that isn't "you." In other words, if you're known for your pixie cut, don't feel the need to grow out your locks just because you'll have more style possibilities. Similarly, don't fight what nature gave you. Embrace your ringlet curls, rather than trying to flatten them out for your wedding. Understandably, you will want to look special on your wedding day, but take care to ensure that you are recognizable when you walk down the aisle.

DON'T compete with your gown. The lines and flow of your gown should be paralleled with the lines of your hairstyle. A simple, sheath gown works well with a tailored upswept chignon, while a princess gown with lots of tulle may work better with long, cascading waves.

DO practice your look prior to your wedding. Set up a rehearsal with your stylist and finalize your style. Take a photo so that he or she will have it for reference. This is your big day, so don't be afraid to voice your opinion and say what works for you and what doesn't. Ultimately, styling decisions are up to you, so don't feel pressured to go the way your stylist suggests.

DON'T leave your wedding day hairdo to chance. The right products, like those from Joico, can help keep your style looking beautiful throughout the day, with minimal retouching. To give hair a volume boost, texture and shine, consider AMPLIFIER® Volumizing Mousse that holds without weighing down hair. For dramatic looks and shine, Gripper Spray Wax allows you to create hair artistry. And to tame flyaways and frizz while imparting a lustrous shine to hair, rely on Silk Result Instant Smoother.

DO make sure the groom-to-be takes grooming and haircare seriously as well. A haircut and style schedule a few weeks prior to the wedding will ensure his hair is in prime shape for wedding photo opportunities.

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Until Next Time!
Jasmine

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Should I Have a Prenuptial Agreement?

Although a Prenuptial Agreement doesn't sound very romantic, it is something you and your fiance may want to consider before you walk down the isle.

Prenuptial agreements are no longer only for wealthy people trying to protect their assets. Nor are they only for second marriages where both spouses have homes and other assets they want to protect for their children's inheritance. Today many couples are entering marriages with real estate, and pension plans they want to hold onto in case the marriage doesn't work out.

Here are some tips you may want to consider when preparing your agreement:

1. Be positive-A prenuptial agreement does not mean that your future spouse does not love or trust you. Many couples with agreements have long and happy marriages.

2. Both partners should have their own lawyers

3. Discuss with your fiance what you want the agreement to cover before you head to your respective lawyer's office.

4. NEVER involve family or friends unless the agreement pertains to them.

What should I put in my agreement?

Don't sweat the small stuff such as TV's and computers. Focus on the main issues:

1. Present Investments- stocks, bonds, real estate,

2. Iraq's, 401k's, and family trust funds

3. Family Business- If you own a business or expect to inherit one, you might want to specify that these things will not be considered marital property.

4. You may want to specify that any family heirlooms you own (or expect to) such as, jewelry, or antiques will remain in the family should you divorce.

5. If either or both of you have children and personal assets, your agreement should protect each child.

6. Any future inheritances you expect to receive should also be protected. Your agreement should specify that these items are outside the marital property.

7. Some couples even include lifestyle issues in their agreement such as children, how to handle savings, and even household tasks. Although lifestyle issues probably will not hold up in a court of law, it may be beneficial to write down your expectations about your life together to make sure you and your future spouse are compatible.

• Recommended Readings
• Prenups for Lovers: A Romantic Guide to Prenuptial Agreements (Click Here)
  
  Prenuptial Agreements: How to Write a Fair and Lasting Contract (Click Here)

Until next time!

Jasmine

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Buying Wedding Bands to Fit Your Finger and Budget

When it comes to shopping for wedding rings, it is important to purchase a band that will symbolize your never-ending bond of eternal love. An unbroken band of gold or silver that is exchanged with this very thought in mind should not only be the right fit for your finger, but also for your budget.The most classic design for wedding rings is that of a yellow gold band, which is available in either 10kt, 14kt, 18kt or even 24kt gold.

Because gold is flexible, it is most durable in its 10kt form. Because 10kt gold wedding rings feature less actual gold content, they are also the most affordable. At the other end of the equation is 24kt gold, which is very rich in color but also very flexible and, therefore, more susceptible to damage. In addition, 24kt gold is the most expensive of all gold creations.

For the couple who dares to be different, wedding rings can also be exchanged as either rose or white gold. Polished, textured, wide and slim designed bands are all available for the bride and groom to choose from. Although these gold colorations may be more difficult to find than the traditional yellow gold, they continue to be a popular choice for many newlyweds simply because they are unique.

For the couple who is especially cost conscious, there is the option of choosing sterling silver wedding rings. In many places, a wide band sterling silver ring can be purchased for less than $50.00 each and is, therefore, a very practical choice for many newlyweds. Sterling silver, like gold, is a precious metal and is designed to last a lifetime. The main difference between sterling silver and gold wedding rings, in addition to the coloration and content, is the fact that sterling silver requires more maintenance than gold. Regular polishing and careful storage are required for keeping your sterling silver in pristine condition and free of tarnish.

One of the most important aspects of shopping for wedding rings is making sure that the sizes are accurately determined before making the purchase. If necessary, either gold or sterling silver wedding rings can be resized by a knowledgeable jeweler. When shopping, it’s a good idea to keep in mind that a thinner band will fit more true to size than a wide band, which may require that the wearer move up one size to ensure a comfortable fit.

When it comes to finding the best deal on wedding rings, the bargain of a lifetime may not be as far away as you think. Among the most popular places to find wedding rings are online auctions and jewelry wholesalers. The most common places to shop are at jewelers and specialty designers, but consumers need to be ready to spend big bucks with either of these options.

If your chosen wedding rings are a little above your current budget, consider placing them on layaway and making regular monthly payments. This will allow for less strain on your wallet and less stress in wondering how you are going to pay for your wedding rings.

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Until Next Time!
Jasmine


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Duties of the Maid / Matron of Honor

When choosing your Maid/Matron of honor you should make sure she is someone you can depend upon through thick and thin as she will play a major role in your wedding. She can be your best friend, or a family member. Some brides are even asking their mothers' to stand up with them as their Matron of Honor.

Here are some of the duties of the Maid/Matron of Honor

1. Provides the bride with advice and moral support when she is frustrated and ready to pull her hair.

2. Helps with pre-wedding activities such as addressing invitations, making phone calls, and running errands. Often accompanies the bride when meeting caters, florist, bakers etc.

3. Helps the bride pick her gown and the bridesmaid dresses.

4. Acts as the head-bridesmaid: organizes bridesmaid's gown fittings, schedules all wedding day hair and makeup appointments, spreads the word about the bridal registry.

5. Pays for her own wedding attire (excluding flowers).

6. Attends all pre-wedding parties.

7. May host a bridal shower (with or without the help of the bridesmaids).

8. Helps the bride dress and stay calm on her wedding day.

9. Precedes the bride down the isle.

10. Holds the groom's ring until ceremony exchange (only if there is no ring-bearer).

11. Arranges bride's veil and train during ceremony.

12. Holds bride's bouquet during part of the ceremony.

13. May stand in receiving line.

14. May sign the wedding certificate as a witness.

15. Helps the bride get ready for her honeymoon when leaving the reception.

16. After the reception she gathers up any gifts, and makes sure they are brought safely to the couple's home.

17. In the days following the reception she will make sure any rental items are returned to the store. She may also take the bride's wedding gown to the dry-cleaners so it can be preserved properly (Hint: The sooner the gown is dry-cleaned, the less chance there are of permanent stains!)

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Well that's all for now....see you tomorrow!
Jasmine

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How To Choose a Wedding Dress to Flatter Your figure

Shopping for your wedding dress can start out as one of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding but can quickly turn into one of the most frustrating experiences of your life.

When shopping for your dress keep in mind that different styles can help you create a thinner, heavier, taller or shorter look. Here are some tips to help you choose the perfect dress to flatter you figure;

Short Thin Figure

• Look for a shirtwaist or natural waist style dress with a bouffant skirt. This style will make you look taller with a fuller figure.
• Your best fabric choices are chiffon, velvet, lace, and schiffli net

Short Heavy Figure

• A Princess or A-line style dress will look great on you.
• To look taller and thinner you should avoid any clingy knit fabrics.
• Your best fabric choice is Chiffon because it creates a floating effect and will camouflage your weight.

Tall Thin Figure

• A shirtwaist or a natural waist style dress with a full skirt will look nice on you.
• If you want to appear shorter, look for a dress with tiers or flounces.
• The best fabrics for you are satin and lace.

Tall Heavy Figure

• A Princess or A-line dress is a good choice as it will slim your figure.
• Your best fabric choices are satin and lace

Remember you are perfect just the size you are. It's a great idea to order the dress in the size you are now. If you lose a few pounds before your wedding, great! Just remember, it is easier to have a dress taken in than have an inch or two added.

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Until Next Time!

Jasmine

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Wedding Planning ~ Who Pays for What?

It's happened....Your Engaged! You have probably been dreaming about your wedding since you were a little girl. Well now it's time to make those dreams come true and start planning your wedding.

Your very first step should be to plan your budget. To help you get started here is a list of who traditionally pays for what.

Bride and/or Family Expenses

• Hosts first Engagement Party
• Cost of any wedding consultants you hire
• Bridal Gown, veil and accessories
• Gifts for the bridesmaids
• Wedding Stationary - includes: Invitations, Thank You notes, Wedding programs
• Groom's wedding ring
• Pre-wedding Party and Bridesmaids Luncheon
• Bridesmaids & Flower Girls bouquets and corsages
• Photography and/or videographer -
• Wedding guest book and other small accessories
• Total cost of the ceremony - includes: location, flowers, music, any rental items
• Total cost of the reception - includes: Hall, flowers, music, food, beverages, cake, party favors and decorations
• Cost of transportation for the bridal party to the ceremony and reception
• Expense of any medical test the bride needs for the marriage license

Groom and/or Family Expenses

• Bride's wedding ring
• Groom's family may host an engagement party (should follow any engagement party hosted by the bride's family)
• The groom's formal wear and all accessories
• The bride's bouquet and going away corsage
• Boutonnieres for the men in the wedding party
• Corsages for all mothers and grandmothers (Including the Bride's Family)
• Marriage license and officiant's fee
• Rehearsal Dinner
• All Honeymoon expenses
• Gifts for the groom's attendants
• Cost of any medical tests the groom needs for the marriage license

Bridesmaids / Maid of Honor Expenses

• Purchase of bridesmaids' dresses and all accessories
• Wedding gift for couple
• Hotel accommodations and travel expenses if necessary
• Shower and/or luncheon for the bride

Best Man and Ushers Expenses

• Rental of wedding attire
• Transportation to and from location of the wedding
• Gift for the couple
• Bachelor party/dinner for the groom
• Hotel accommodations when necessary

Ring Bearer and Flower Girl Expense

• Children's' parents are responsible for the cost of all wedding attire
• Parents are responsible for any travel expenses (including hotels if necessary)

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Until next time!

Jasmine

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Choosing the Right Tuxedo For Your Body Type

Though the bulk of wedding day attire attention typically focuses on what the bride is wearing, grooms also have important choices to make when it comes to what to wear on their wedding day.

While a groom's wardrobe decision typically does not involve much forethought, he should keep in mind several factors before choosing a tuxedo, such as the degree of formality and time of the event in addition to the style of the tuxedo itself.

Here is a list of some tuxedo terminology that should help you make an educated decision.

Single Breasted Tuxedo

This is a classic style suit with a single row of buttons down the center. This is a good style for all body types. Single breasted suits come in many styles. You can order a single breasted tuxedo with either one or two buttons. Taller grooms usually prefer two buttons while shorter men prefer one button. Grooms can also order three or four button single breasted tuxedos. These are good for men who are particularly tall or thin. Larger men should avoid the three-or-four button suit.

Double Breasted Tuxedo

A coat with two rows of vertical buttons - one to close the coat and the other for decorations. Will look good on most body types.

Cutaway Tuxedo (Morning coat)

A long coat that tapers from the waistline button to one broad tail in the back with a vent; usually dark gray or black. This will look good on men of all sizes. This style is most appropriate for daytime weddings.

Tails

A formal coat that is short in front and extends to tow long tails in the back. This type of jacket should be avoided by shorter or stockier grooms. Tails are mainly reserved for ultra-formal weddings.

Peaked Lapel Tuxedo

An extension of the coat collar. This kind of coat will look good on a shorter groom as it will make the body look longer and leaner.

Stroller Coat

A semi-formal suit jacket cut like a tuxedo; appropriate for afternoon weddings. Usually available in dark gray or black. Will look good on all men.

Shawl Collar Jacket

Unlike a traditional collar, shawl collars do not come to a complete point. A wider groom should wear a wider shawl collar as a thin collar would make him look larger. A thin groom should wear a thin collar, as a wider one will make him look cartoonish.

Dinner Jacket

A tuxedo cut jacket in white or ivory; usually worn with black satin stripped pants. This is a great option for an after 6-pm wedding, as well as hot summer nights.

Banded Collar

This is the collar type that appears to not be a collar at all, as it just wraps around the neck and is never worn with a tie. A groom with a short thick neck should definitely avoid this type of collar as it will appear as though he is bursting out of his clothes.

High Vest and Low Vests (Worn instead of a cummerbund)

High vests are usually good for taller men with longer torsos, as they extend up the torso higher than a regular vest and go well with a high-buttoned coat.

Low Vests are more appropriate for most men and will look good on all body types.

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Tips on choosing a caterer for your wedding.

Your wedding reception is the biggest party you will ever throw so you want to make sure you do it right. Choosing the right caterer is essential. Take it from me not all caterers are created equal.

Here is a list of tips to help your choose a great caterer

1. Get Referrals

A good place to start looking for a caterer is right in your own backyard. Ask your married friends, family and coworkers for referrals. You can also look in your local phone book. When you're interviewing your caterer, ask him/her to supply you with references. If the caterer refuses your request, it may be a good idea to leave and go onto the next interview.

2. Licenses & liability Insurance

Make sure the caterer is licensed in your state and has liability insurance. Insurance is very important in case one of your guests gets food poisoning (God Forbid!), chips a tooth, or is involved in an accident after leaving your reception. If the caterer does not have insurance, ask him/her if you can buy some.

3. Budget

The main thing you must consider is your budget. Before meeting with your caterer know exactly how much money you can afford to spend. A good caterer is creative and will gladly work with you to make sure you can stick to that budget. Do not let the caterer talk you into something you cannot afford as you do not need the extra stress worrying about how to pay for it.

4. Flexibility
Is your caterer flexible? Does he/she listen to your ideas and concerns. Will the caterer serve special food for guests with dietary restrictions such as vegetarians, and people with food allergies. Would the caterer be willing to cook a special family dish?

5. Personality & Style
Do you feel comfortable with the caterer. Do you have similar tastes? Beware of the know-it-all caterer who tries to talk you into something you do not want.

6. Food
Be careful! The caterer will try to sell you the most expensive meal plans. Ask how much each plate will cost. How much food each person will receive. Will you serve hors d'oeuvres and what is the cost?

(Money Saving Tip: Tray pass hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour and serve a lighter meal.)

Don't forget to ask about your wedding cake. Will they make one for you or do you need to bring your own. If the caterer is making the cake, do not assume they know how. Ask if they have any sample cakes you can see. Also you should show the caterer pictures of any cakes you like.

7. Taste Testing the Food
Most caterers will allow you to sample the planned dishes. This is very important as you do not want any surprises at your reception. Also, with any luck you may be able to taste a sample of your wedding cake.

8. Servers
Does the caterer provide waiter and waitresses. You will need approximately one server for every ten guests. Also you should ask what kind of clothes the waitstaff wears. Are you allowed to make wardrobe requests?

9. Decorations
When seeking a caterer you also want to know what types of decorations are offered - tableskirts, linens, centerpieces etc.

10. Place Settings
What does the place setting consist of. A good caterer will gladly show you what the plates, glasses and silverware will look like.

11. Bar

What about beverages. How will you be charged? By consumption or by how many bottles are opened. Exactly what are the charges per bottle. And what are the brands to be served. How many bottles will be served? Will you be refunded money for any unopened bottles?

Money Saving Tips:
To reduce your bar tab only serve, beer, wine and soft drinks.
You may also consider offering your guests an open bar for the first hour or two and then making them pay for their own drinks.

12. Little extra fees

Be careful of all the little extra fees the caterer will throw at you.

• Servers, waiters & hostess fees (plus gratuities)
• Tableware/Linen Fees
• Bartender & Bar Fees & (plus gratuities)
• Overtime fees
• Cancellation fees ~ Make sure you have the cancellation policy in writing!
• Extra food fees
• Policy on champagne. Are there any pouring fees?
• Cutting Cake fees

To make sure you are not charged for any hidden fees Read your caterer's contract very carefully before signing it. Make sure that all the items mentioned above are clearly stated. If they are not listed, have them written in before signing.

With a little preparation, you can stick to your budget and have the party of your dreams!

Until Next Time
Jasmine

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The Icing On the Wedding Cake

Do you want fondant, royal, or buttercream? Walk into the bakery like a pro armed with your dictionary of wedding cake terms.

Buttercream
A traditional, rich and creamy icing. It is easily colored or flavored, and is used for fancy decorations like shells, swags, basketweaves, icing flowers, etc. Since it's made almost entirely of butter, buttercream has a tendency to melt in extreme heat, so it's not recommended for outdoor weddings.

Fondant
This icing looks smooth and stiff and is made with gelatin and corn syrup to give it its helmet-like appearance. It looks the best when decorated with marzipan fruits, gum paste flowers, or a simple ribbon. Fondant does not need refrigeration.

Royal Icing
A mix of confectioner's sugar and milk or egg whites, royal icing is what the faces of gingerbread men are decorated wtih. It's white, shiny, and hard, and does not need to be refrigerated. It's used for decorations like dots and latticework.

Ganache
This chocolate and heavy cream combination can be poured over cakes for a glass-like chocolate finish, or whipped into a filling that it stands up beautifully between cake layers. Due to the ingredients, however, it's unstable - no heat or humid weather, or the icing will slide right off the cake.

The Last Word
Be sure to look at different styles of cakes before you go to your baker so you have an idea of what you want. The more froo-froo you get on your wedding dessert, obviously, the more it will cost, so sometimes the simpler way is better. And, don't forget to ask for a taste test!

Fun Sites:
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Until Next Time!
Jasmine


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The Groom's Wedding Planning Duties

In the past grooms took a backseat when it came to planning a wedding, preferring to let their bride-to-be do the majority of the work. However, times are now changing and more men want to be involved in the planning process. The problem is that most men really don't know how to plan a wedding so they need your guidance.

Here are some responsibilities for the groom:

1. Gather Paperwork

Make it his responsibility to apply for the wedding license, research blood-test requirements, and coordinate passport applications if needed for travel. In addition, add the bride's name to financial accounts, wills, insurance policies, if you have mutually decided this will be in your best interest.

2. Arrange Transportation

Interview Limousine companies or arrange for other transportation to the wedding, and reception hall. Make sure to provide the transportation company with accurate directions and with a time schedule of the days events.

3. Plan the Honeymoon

Once you both decide upon your locale, he should go about booking the trip and securing transportation to and from the airport, which could be provided by the best man.

4. Coordinate Groomsmen Attire

In addition to the grooms attire, set up fittings for tuxedo rentals for the wedding. He should make sure everyone has the necessary accessories (i.e. vest, tie, cumberbund, and matching shoes & socks). He should also arrange to have the tuxedos returned to the store the next business day after the wedding.

5. Help the bride set up a budget, write the guest list, and pick out the invitations.

If the groom's parents want to contribute financially to the wedding, he should speak to them privately (without the bride). That way they will not feel any pressure. (Remember, his parents are going to be a very important part of your life so you do not want to alienate them!)

The groom should ask his parents who they would like to invite to the wedding. Again, the groom may want to do this without his bride. Before speaking to the parents, make sure you know exactly how many people they are allowed to invite.

Until Next Time!
Jasmine

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Best Man's Wedding Duties

Traditionally the groom chooses his best man. This important role is usually filled by a best friend or a family member such as a brother, cousin, or even a father. It is also acceptable for the groom to choose a close female friend or family member to stand up with him - she is referred to as an attendant.

The best man's duties are many and varied. Here is a list of some of his (her) duties:

1. Checks on last minute details such as transportation and accommodations for out-of-town ushers.

2. Makes sure the groom is properly dressed and at the wedding site on time.

3. Pays the ceremony officiant his fee immediately after the ceremony. The groom is responsible for this fee and gives the money to the best man before the ceremony.

4. Carries the bride's wedding ring down the aisle.

5. Makes sure the ushers are all properly dressed and at the ceremony on time. Also makes sure the ushers understand how to seat the guests.

6. May sign the marriage license as a witness.

7. Proposes the first toast at the reception to the happy couple.

8. May stand in the receiving line or circulate with guests.

9. Sits to the right of the bride.

10. Tries to make sure the guests feel welcome by introducing people around.

11. Along with the Maid/Matron of honor, collects any gifts and cards at the reception and delivers them to the couple's home.

12. Holds and protects the couples luggage and travel documents during the reception. It is a good idea to place items in the trunk of a car.

13. After the reception he escorts the bride and groom to the "get-away-car" or drives them to the airport.

14. Makes sure that all the tuxedoes are returned to the store the first business day after the wedding. The longer you keep the tuxes the more money it will cost you.

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Until Next Time!

Jasmine